I did everything for my best friend and its the small gestures that count but she doesnt seem to care she only uses me when she needs me and never does anything for me 

I tried talking to her but she doesnt care

Then its time for  u to stop calling her / him your bff.

Same i dont feel the same about her anymore

Sort it out with her. Make her understand how she will feel if she is in your shoes. If she is still the same bruhh she does not deserve to be called as your bff..

3am Thoughts

 I mean she is a butch to me.
She always get angry. She thinks she is the boss. Now that i fought back. She is playing as if everything is my fault.
What should i do as a friend.
I dont hate her but i dont like her too.


Conflict

Hey , guys I just wanna share something with you . I had a friend . In my opinion she is toxic and dragging me down ,so I decided to avoid her . Cause she made it clear many times that she doesn't care about me except herself and her more toxic boyfriend who was also my friend at some point . She never took responsibility for anything , always acting like damsel in distress . Always asking help in the matters that associated with her father . Like I was always there to help her out , if she asks help even now , I will help but it's not for friendship. I will help her because I will get irritated by her words or else I ignore her . But it's only me who gives and she never helps in any situation .I don't know why I even associate with her . 
So , I was avoiding her since I went to college . I even didn't talk to her for 6 months . I didn't reply her messages . In mean time pandemic started . I was feeling lonely . I become so sad thinking that I may not have any soulmate or that kind of strong bonded friendship . I have friends , but not many . I am " quite and minding your own business" type , so I have a really small friend circle . I was feeling really low that time and I was trying to overcome that phase. Then again she texted me . After 2 days struggle , I replied . That I was in I don't care mode and I thought whatever comes in your way try taking advantage of it . Then again started msg, long conversations in phone . Then as usual started toxicity of her and there is also her boyfriend . So I decided to again avoid her and this time I am going to do nothing . I will not give proper reply , won't meet with her , avoid conversations . I really want her out of my life . 

She is like I don't like that she is so beautiful , don't be friends with her anymore . Like bitch this is my life , I can be with who I want . She also told me she became friends with me because she is more pretty than me so , when boys watch us , they will look at her more . There was a time I replied her msg properly , but she will be like you don't msg me why I have to msg you first . When I hang out with other friends , she called and started blaming that I always ignore her , I always hang out with other but never with her . She never told me to go out with her at that time . But whenever two of us go out , she will call her boyfriend and she will not give a glance towards me . Like what the hell , what I am , a toy ? She hates everybody who is better than her . She want to continue our friendship because I am ugly , avarage in studies , hair is in boycut and any other way worse than her . I think she is dragging me down . 
What you guys think about her ? What things I should do ? 
I am going to cut her off completely out off my life , despite of what other people say .

Friends

i give alot of attention and care to my bestfriend but the fact she doesn't acknowledges it and keeps talking about the bare minimum things others did to her 24/7.. i want to end this friendship.. she always talks about her self and dosent even finds some time to ask me about my day.. i'm giving her a chance rn but if she messes it up then i will end our friendship.. am i doing right?

I had a dear friend. Let's call her T. T and I were friends from class 9th. We landed in the same section in class 10th. We turned into best friends. Used to sit at the same desk, call each other and talk for hours.. we were called "Jai and Veeru" by our teachers. We were always together. She had another friend who had a problem with me as before me she was her best friend and used to hang out with her. On learning this, T broke friendship with her and she said to me that I value u more than her. I was happy.I had a toxic family and tough parents. I had a bad record with friendship and most used to end within 1 year. I had this fear that everyone will leave me one day. but at that time, I forgot and thought that I got a soul-sister. 
Fast forward, in class 11 we were separated as we both had different subjects. our meetings lessened but was still there after school, lunch breaks and before classes. she stopped replying to my messages and calls. I understood as classes can be hectic. it was all good till then. in the 12th, she stopped going out for lunch too. she completely avoided me. no messages, no calls. she even refused our Sunday plans and talks. She had a new friend who used to live near her house. she started hanging out with her. One day in front of me she said "I only use WhatsApp for her!" I ignored or perhaps I didn't pay any attention to be concerned. after a lot of this, one day I confronted her that why the hell are u behaving like this, why are u ignoring me?? She said that "It is not you, you are still there in my friend category, u are still on the list, the only thing is that someone else I got is better and has a position higher than u in my life, she is my soulmate." I broke, I felt cheated. but eventually, I came to peace with that, I thought its ok, a friend is also not bad, her choice. 
Then one day, when she cancelled our plan again to hang out with her new friends, I became angry and confronted her on whatsapp, to which she said, "compare yourself to X(her new bff) you shall know where u exist and where she is". i don't remember all she said.... but that hurt me, that wound is still like a sore. After that we left school, barely talked once or twice and then out of touch... its 3.5 years since then, since we left class 12th and had our last talk. 
I miss her still, I can't get over her, you can get over a boyfriend but not a best friend. I still haven't got my closure... I still want to get answered that why were I left?? What was my mistake? Many friends left me like that but I am more concerned with T... am I bad as a human being... don't I have the qualities to be loved by family or friends?? These questions often eat my sleep at night and I cry in my pillow...
These are challenging Covid times, I am so desperate to call her and ask if she is ok, but her number although deleted from my phone is still in my diary. Whenever I open it I am haunted by those experiences, some ego or fear captures me, should I call?? Why didn't she call?? Does she miss me?? She must have a lot of college friends to ask na ?? I am so in conflict and confusion... 

In my college, i and other 2 girls were friends.. let's  name them x and y .. i donno if y is kinda jelaous me being with x .. but i loved and treated both of them equally.. i and x both left old group of friends to sit with y in class.. but y never valued me .. she said things about me to my very close friends and never confronted  me with her issue with me.. I never knew she felt left out because of me... she told each and everyone that i left her during one particular time .. bt i always  cared for her.. now everyone started feeling that im bad and left her n all .. it really hurts me.even now she isnt caring about me but is so good with x .. i feel bad .. even though i never did wrong with her.. how can i overcome this

My friend beats me everyday. She is doing it for fun as I am her best friend. But I don't like it and i have told her about that many times. Yesterday I told that I didn't want to talk to her so she went and after an hour she came back and apologized to me so many times. And I still didn't agree to talk to her.so she cried a lot and i noticed that . but she doesn't know that I saw her crying. What should I do now? Should I talk to her again? Is she toxic? 😕

Funny thing happend today. A 'friend' who had talked to me really rudely without any reason a few days ago and had completely ignored my last text, texted me. We were in middle of a class and were having a class test and I was the first one to submit the paper and got just one marks less than the full marks. Suddenly, saw a text of her asking for the answers(she deleted it after 2 mins of me not responding). I don't even know what to make out of her. I mean she was picking up fights and being bitchy for no reason for at all but I had seriously expected her to be better than this. It just feels so much better to be friendless rather than have friends like this. 

I really really need to vent
I have a friend and she just gets on my nerves. But we're part of a bigger group so I can't just stop being friends with her. She has a weird obsession with holding my hand, or putting her arm around my shoulders. I need space. Physically and emotionally. We became friends at the start of the team when lectures were started offline and the rest of the group was formed later so now I somehow am her closest friend in the group. But I don't know how long I can lie and pretend that her behaviour is okay. She honestly can be so rude to people without knowing it, she has no clue about personal space, she took my phone and started reading my messages, inquiring about who was whom. She does this thing where she'll say something totally inconsiderate without batting an eye and when people point it out they'll get an entire argument about, "tHis iS jUsT whO i aM yOu guYs" 
Aaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh😭😭

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