I canāt understand this person(he is my online friend). If anyone can help me here?
Today when I said bye I am disturbed I want break, he was like you matter to me, I count on you and was apolozing if anything happened. Like he donāt understand? when someone is disturbed(he knows by my mental health is disturbed) donāt bother them.
One day he is good, talking to me coz he likes to talk, he is nice person but donāt care about how I feel sometimes as he is annoying too, sometimes ignored me too. He is enthusiast person he said something on call few days back maybe he donāt remember, but it creeped me and hurted.
Is it because of loneliness guys? Or what?
Seems like your vibes dont match. But you need to confront him about it. Maybe he needs to be told that when you are not feeling so good, you should be left alone. If you dont explain he might not understand because he may not know what its like to be mentally ill. So give it a chance. If it doesnt work out, let him go, its nit meant to be
Oh I agree. Well I was taking break from everything including work. I told him too I am taking break, I am disturbed. Should I talk now or after break?
You may tell him after your breakā¦your callā¦if you matter to him he will wait.
Got it. Thank you!
Where you guys met?
Vents
Oh asked because I met the same kind of person here. I have stopped talking to him. He would get mad even if I leave for a while. And was creepy too. Girl, do what is good for your mental health, these types of guys arenāt worth your time and you!
what is this app?
Oh thanks got it! Exactly, he got disturbed too, like I was doing wrong despite his efforts.
I used to be like this earlier! Man I would get mad if say someone didnāt reply early. Or if they replied too late and would say ki are I was busy. I would be like itna kya busy sirf ek reply to kar hi sakte hai ya atleast you can text ki you are busy and all. maybe we used to feel like if I am giving you some time you should also do the same.
Also if you are insecure there is the same behavior.
But I have learned now so I donāt mind much except sometimes it bothers.
Thatās good. You will learn slowly. Good luck!
