I can’t sleep right now and all I want to do is punch a hole through the fucking wall! I’m 21 in uni and just can’t cope! I’m so lonely it actually hurts! Never had a girlfriend or any relationship and have no passion in my life. I’m just a fucking husk at this point! Just writing this to try and get some feelings off of my chest so maybe I can sleep. My family are all worried about me because I’ve lost weight and it just makes me feel pathetic that I can’t even do anything right! Just fucking sick to death!
Hi, I am so sorry that you are feeling this way right now. I wish I could come and give you a hug to make you feel better. I’ll say that you’re ONLY 21 and you have your entire life ahead of you. You have loads of time to find a girlfriend and to find your passion. You don’t need to have it all figured out at this age. This is the age for you to go and explore different things, try out different career options, meet new people and make new friends! Don’t put all this pressure on yourself at this age, it’s really not worth it I’m telling you. Enjoy this time. And firstly, love yourself. Even if you don’t have a relationship, you have yourself and honestly that’s all you need. You’re there for you. Take this time to figure out more about yourself. Figure out more about who you are as a person, what you like and what you don’t like etc.
And don’t worry, Im here if you ever want to talk about your feelings more :)
Hey, I’m sorry that you have to go through this. I wish I could help you in any way and talk to you in person but unfortunately we can’t. But here is one thing you should know, you CAN do things rightly. And please don’t blame yourself because everyone is going through some kind of hardship or is struggling with something. So talk to your family, you are only 21 you have a long way to go ^_^.
You have sooooo damn many years left to live and you must make the fucking best of it . Enjoy yourself and do stuff that makes you feel better, do things that makes you calm. Things that makes you feel less angry. Because you fucking deserve to live your best life. You are lucky to have a family that cares about you :). I wish I could say the same about mine… but yh. We gotta show life how strong and determined we are and instead of punching the wall. Punch life in the face over and over again by becoming the best version of yourself and showing everyone that you are strong and unbreakable! I’m hoping the best for ya! Good luck and don’t feel lonely because you got all of us lonely asses. 😁