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I came out as bi last year but I have had a change in my feelings, now Im lesbian, but I don’t know how to tell my parents.I came out last year with a wallpaper. But it’s just awkward talking with my parents about this stuff. 😔✊🏽 I just don’t know what to do. If I tell my mom she’ll just probably tell her friends when I came out the first time. I told her to keep it a secret too.

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hey,
hope you and your family are doing well!
I think if they were okay with you being bi they would be okay with you being a lesbian too moreover, you already are a part of the LGBTQ community so I don’t think they’ll have a problem.
if you think your mom will go and talk about it to others try telling her that yu would appreciate it if she kept things to herself as you are not comfortable with telling people right now…and that you have made a decision to tell your parents about yourself because they are important to you! try to tell her all this and i am sure she will understand…and even if they don’t seem to be okay with it immediately just know that they might take some time to come to terms with it…but give them that time and space and i am sure they’ll understand. just let them know that their opinions/decisions matter to you.
I hope this helps
lots of love and light to you!✨❤️

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Well, that’s actually a complicated situation.

I think you should tell her when you’re really prepared for all the things that could happen in the future. Like afront your parents, your mum, her friends, your family, etc.
Hope it goes good! Good luck. ;)

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I think you should tell them* sorry. :(