I broke up with someone approx 1 year back. It was a 6 year long distance relationship. And I broke up with him because I wanna get married and he didn’t. Plus family didn’t want to accept me. Later I realised that he was toxic for me. He made me learned that if I had to stay with him I have to agree with him in all respect. This toxic nature I realised that’s why I broke up with up.
Recently a coworker praposed to me for marriage.i got scared but I kept my fear aside .I started dating him.just dating… He is really nice and caring. Today he said he loved me and my mind start getting scared . This baggage is stopping me to continue dating him. Every time I try to get pass my fear I got anxious. What to do!
Akash Dalal @skybroker
Talking to him is the only and the best way to get you out of fear and anxiety
if it scares you tell him to stop talking if its like that or actually depends
you can share more if…
Well my advice is to ask him to propose you in proper way by meeting with your family and you guys should get engaged first before you start to love him. Otherwise it would be the same mistake which you have done in past.
Trying to do this.thanks
I think there will be lots of people who say “you need to talk to him”. Because it is really the right thing for you to do. Sincerely and without pushing anything talk about what happened in your life. I think you should be honest with your partner but also remember that your past does not define your future. Be honest and try to allow yourself to be happy. I think you have been doing right so far.
I wish all the best for the two of you 💜
