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Sahil @sotte17

I broke up with my girlfriend few days back and yesterday I saw her talking to another guy in the gym. Now I am worried that she is going to move on soon in just few days of breaking up. This is giving me a gut wrenching pain because I don’t know what to do.

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Shizuka @nini2003

May be she is just talking to him normally. If u both were serious about relationship… It won’t be so easy for her to move on. And if its otherwise , then let her move on… U cannot hold someone.

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Sahil @sotte17

I mean yes yday was the first time I saw her talking to him. The relationship was veryyy serious we had plans of getting married someday. But it went downhill because she wasn’t able to give me time due to her job. But seeing this yday made me think if it was actually the job or is there something wrong with me.

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Sunny @sunnyyy

The same had happened with me too bruh, I can feel you.
talking about me its been a year
and i still ask the same question to myself was it really that easy to move on for her after such a serious relation and endless promises

Sahil @sotte17

The endless promises are the worst. She was the clingy one in this relationship. But Idk I mean I might be overthinking this but still it’s playing on my mind.

Shizuka @nini2003

Please don’t think that there is anything wrong with you. If someone moves on or does not have feeling for us, it nowhere shows ki we r wrong. U will find a girl who will love u enough for whom u are.

Sahil @sotte17

I thought she was the one tbh. Everything was going perfect in our lives but then she got burned out due to her work life and then we broke up. But seeing her speak to someone else got me thinking was it really the burn out or was it me. I felt jealous even though that’s the first time I saw them talking.

Shizuka @nini2003

Its better to ask her… U or me will never know the truth

Sahil @sotte17

Isn’t that a little toxic behaviour? It might piss her off more because I might be wrong and that’ll just make the situation worse

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StUnNiNg @zx

Maybe

Shizuka @nini2003

But Thinking all this will eat u from inside with no results.

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Anonymous

Don’t judge too quikly bro… What if she is talking about you?

Sahil @sotte17

That’s very unlikely since the other guy is not a common friend and he does not know about our past relationship.

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@dandeliion_

You too look for a new girl

Sahil @sotte17

I mean I wish it was that easy to find someone like her.

kartik @cannon

If she wants to move on, she will. It pains ik, but it would be easy for her to move on by using some new guys.

Focus on your grind, use the pain to build yourself and get a new chick

Sahil @sotte17

Its not just about her moving on tbh. I really can’t understand how she can give up on me like that after 3 years of endless promises and commitments that we will be together.

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