I broke up with my GF last month. It got too toxic and I was so relieved afterwards. But a month down the line... I miss her terribly. I feel like a shitty person and I feel like reaching out to her. I know I shouldn't... What do you guys think?

Aah I don't even know where to start. But she's a spoiled kid. She don't know how to adjust and would throw tantrums to get anything she wants. I couldn't sing, make jokes, criticize, go out with friends. These are some things she would throw a fit for 

Sure! Thank you random stranger for making a comment on my 2 year old relationship by judging from a 3 sentence post and 1 comment. Are you sure you're not the one who's jealous here. Whatever the case, please be a little considerate about what you want to say... If you can't contribute then the least you can do is just not say anythig.

Sure! Thank you again. Do you not use your brain or are you just being salty? I'm not gonna justify or give any reason to you. You don't know me, you haven't seen me or her. You shouldn't't judge anyone like, not because you can't... But because you 1. Full knowledge of it. 2. You're too hyper and judgmental beyond human decency. I'm not gonna say anything to you. If you'd like to waste your time by putting in more salty comments, feel free to do so! Thanks.

Umm i don't think u can blame him yar she was rich doesn't mean he can't love her and how can u say she might be into others cuz she's rich

Thank you. Really appreciate it! I just needed to hear some affirming words. 

I don't think you should communicate with her, it is pretty natural that you would miss her someday but eventually this feeling will go buddy

You shouldn't contact her dude....u both ended things month ago!
If you are gonna contact her then things will turn into mess...and this new thing will NOT end on a good note 

I think it's kinda normal to miss the ither person after a breakup it's difficult to comeback to the old normal life where she's not there....idk if it was so toxic i don't think u should go back cuz it can be the same only again but idk for sure

3am Thoughts

So about 3 months ago I proposed my crush who was my good friend but she denied by saying that I am wondering person but she doesn't feel the same and but I all always get a vibe she feels something for me but anyway I respect her descion so I am not saying to her about this but I am feeling so hurted every single day because I really love her and I am still not over her I can't stop thinking about her like we were together how will react and all this when I watch something realted to couple mean any happy moments I think of her and then realized we can be together which always made me cry I am crying almost every night from 3 months and I know I am running my life because it's okay 2 months left to college to get over and I haven't figured anything for me but this feeling hurt so good and moreover she agreed that she will not ruin our friendship but lately I am getting a feeling now she is ignoring me I messaged her after a month and we are having some nice conversation but on middle of the conversation she is ghosted me and I know people will say get over her there more girl in this world , focus on yourself but I already heard alot of this from people 🥲🥲 and this is the only girl I have ever liked in my 21 year of life  she was  genuinely the first girl I ever liked i sometimes feel I am worthless and though she is a Very nice girl she deserves the best maybe I was not the best maybe I am worthless


Lonely

If only I can connect with Meredith and tell her how much I love her, I would feel better ￼￼

Depression

my wife is talking to some one on phone, and i dont know what kind of relationship it is, i am not talking straight to her since she give justification and started shouting. i dont want to ruin my daughters life. so not taking a call of coming out of marriage. i am little clueless what needs to be done. 

Marriage

Sad
My girl friend got angry over a triffling issue 2 mnths back and she blocked me from every where but after 2-3 days i am trying to calm her down through writing mail and letters so slowly she stared talking to me once in a week so i thought one day i will sort out everything. But a week back she was in my city so request her for meeting and she denied on everyrequest. When she left my town i request her to please be normal in relationshio she said i moved on and u should. We cann't more than a friend.

Relationships

trying 2 deside if i should break up with her because she hurt me a lot with the things shes done but i still love her. ive been thinkin bout this sm, just dont wanna hurt her or make the wrong mistake 

Anxiety

Hey guys !
Recently i proposed a girl and she said yes but now I think it was too early for that because i am still afraid to go with her or even accept that she is my girlfriend i don't know what to do please help me to get through this .
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P.S: - i really like spending time with her 

College

Just frustrated 😠 

Frustration

stressed out
I really like someone and I am trying to figure out if they have been leaving subtle hints lol

I met someone recently last November we are just friends right now. I like someone for the first time in almost 12 months .We know each other through common friends, she is a teacher. We are in different time zones.

We only met like once 5 yrs ago briefly, she is one of the common friends of my friend . Last year I went through breakup after 2 years of relationship and she herself is coming out of a abusive relationship .

She actually teaches in china ,but her home country is Chile. She works for a science company and also does a lot of volunteer work and counselling around the world. 

She has a busy schedule and she works according to the Chinese calendar ,only has 2 days off in a month. She went back to Chile now to visit her father who is sick so right now temporarily she is doing classes from her home in Chile


We have been talking for the past 2 months. Even if she is busy she always responds to my messages when she can with her busy schedule. 

I call her wonder woman because  because she is teaching, taking care of her family, does volunteer work, doing her masters


Once we were talking about lockdown hair and all ,she sent me selfies of hers quite a few of them because she wanted to show me her hair. She is beautiful and stunning by the way.


We have been talking on skype past few weeks and one day she told me
she was browsing things to buy and she came across a perfume which mentioned wonder woman fragrance or something lol and said it reminded her of me and sent me the pic of that perfume lol because i always call her wonder woman

So a week ago I got busy and I couldn't message her for 5 days she texted me on the 6th day She and said she wanted to check up on me see how I am doing. Then told me that apparently there was a huge fire in Chile wildfire and 25000 have been evacuated so she had to evacuate with her family temporarily, they are okay and back now

The next day I texted her saying how are you and in the middle of the conversation it was kind of unexpected but she sent me couple of voice messages on skype in the middle of our texting. She told me that they had to evacuate again because of a false alarm of tsunami and all that and asked me how I am doing.

We last spoke on Monday .I left her a message on Thursday asking how she is doing by sending a gif. She saw it but hasn't responded yet. I know she is a very busy person and has a lot going on but just not sure what to do next
I am waiting to hear from her or will reach out again at some point.

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