I broke up with my GF last month. It got too toxic and I was so relieved afterwards. But a month down the line... I miss her terribly. I feel like a shitty person and I feel like reaching out to her. I know I shouldn't... What do you guys think?

Aah I don't even know where to start. But she's a spoiled kid. She don't know how to adjust and would throw tantrums to get anything she wants. I couldn't sing, make jokes, criticize, go out with friends. These are some things she would throw a fit for 

Sure! Thank you random stranger for making a comment on my 2 year old relationship by judging from a 3 sentence post and 1 comment. Are you sure you're not the one who's jealous here. Whatever the case, please be a little considerate about what you want to say... If you can't contribute then the least you can do is just not say anythig.

Sure! Thank you again. Do you not use your brain or are you just being salty? I'm not gonna justify or give any reason to you. You don't know me, you haven't seen me or her. You shouldn't't judge anyone like, not because you can't... But because you 1. Full knowledge of it. 2. You're too hyper and judgmental beyond human decency. I'm not gonna say anything to you. If you'd like to waste your time by putting in more salty comments, feel free to do so! Thanks.

Umm i don't think u can blame him yar she was rich doesn't mean he can't love her and how can u say she might be into others cuz she's rich

Thank you. Really appreciate it! I just needed to hear some affirming words. 

I don't think you should communicate with her, it is pretty natural that you would miss her someday but eventually this feeling will go buddy

You shouldn't contact her dude....u both ended things month ago!
If you are gonna contact her then things will turn into mess...and this new thing will NOT end on a good note 

I think it's kinda normal to miss the ither person after a breakup it's difficult to comeback to the old normal life where she's not there....idk if it was so toxic i don't think u should go back cuz it can be the same only again but idk for sure

3am Thoughts

I had 8 year long relationship which 'technically' end in 2020 march but actually ended in july 2021.
I dont even know where to begin the end of story.
But for the last 8 year she was the main part of my life and everything revolved around her. She was the go to person, the comforting voice at night
I have friends but everyone is busy with their life and cant fill the void left behind by her.

Now by the end of it I am very lost with no friends and is a new city fighting hard everyday. I have no one to talk to and have  just realised how hard it is to make new friends or partner. It's as if I have lost the ability or I am not worthy enough.


Breakup

I was in a relationship which ended up in 2020 december after 4 yrs,never thought this would happen and suddenly during the lockdown we had a small argument which got stretched from other side and i was much concerned about her so used to call and text her,but she used to say that everything is over i have moved ahead.
Don't understand how can someone's feelings change just in 10 days of not taking to each other
I still miss her what to do?
I want to talk to her once but she doesn't reply,want to know the exact reason for separation because she just said i moved on and u also move on, don't talk to me.

How can I be less emotionally dependent on my wife? I love her very much, but she is very cold with me, physically and emotionally. I feel very alone even when I am with her. I tried 5 times to leave her but I end begging her to come back...

Lonely

I once made an online friend on this same platform around 6 months ago...I really liked her sense of humor and her maturity. We instantly clicked and then we would talk to each other like everyday. Being a girl myself I told her about my deepest insecurities. But one day, she just disappeared. I waited and waited so one day I finally decided to contact her thru this same platform again and I found her again.  We talked for a month again but sumthing occurred in my life that I refused to tell her coz I was insecure again.  Then when I tried contacting her again she disappeared again. I can still reach her thru this app again but I'm wondering if it is the right thing to do? I mean I feel that I'm the

I live outside of india with my gf . I went to india to visit my family and behind my back she started liking another guy . She forgot our 3 year relationship in just a second . How can someone do that and now she is blaming me for it . If she was unhappy she could have left ne instead of cheating with me . Just last night i found she was sleeping with him .when i think of her sleeping with someone else it just kills me inside . Life hit me really hard this time . The hardest ever!! I always thought we were meant to be forever but nothing is forwvee in this world . I dont know how do i focus on my future now what to do . 

Hello . Iam in a love with a girl for past two years . She sometimes have an mood swing and stops speaing to me and blocks me . And after three days she starts reaching out to me . This has been repeated for three times in past two years. And now again she tells not to text her and do not speak with her and I tried my best to make her calm and give her a solution but she is not listening to me and tells me not to text and her . She has not blocked me . What should I do ? Should I try to calm her down or should I give her time and go on no contact. We doesn't have any fight between us.

Relationships

How do i ask out a girl? Like i've confidence issues i go all panic just about imagining it.

I’m bisexual and I really like this girl who is confused about her sexuality but she thinks she is pansexual. When we spoke she told me she’s new to all this and she hasn’t been in a relationship ever but she wants to give it a shot with me by being friends first. I’m mostly always texting her and I’m always the one putting in efforts into getting to know her so I can’t help but overthink if I should always be the one who texts her first. should I give up or continue?

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