I broke up with my GF last month. It got too toxic and I was so relieved afterwards. But a month down the line... I miss her terribly. I feel like a shitty person and I feel like reaching out to her. I know I shouldn't... What do you guys think?

Aah I don't even know where to start. But she's a spoiled kid. She don't know how to adjust and would throw tantrums to get anything she wants. I couldn't sing, make jokes, criticize, go out with friends. These are some things she would throw a fit for 

Sure! Thank you random stranger for making a comment on my 2 year old relationship by judging from a 3 sentence post and 1 comment. Are you sure you're not the one who's jealous here. Whatever the case, please be a little considerate about what you want to say... If you can't contribute then the least you can do is just not say anythig.

Sure! Thank you again. Do you not use your brain or are you just being salty? I'm not gonna justify or give any reason to you. You don't know me, you haven't seen me or her. You shouldn't't judge anyone like, not because you can't... But because you 1. Full knowledge of it. 2. You're too hyper and judgmental beyond human decency. I'm not gonna say anything to you. If you'd like to waste your time by putting in more salty comments, feel free to do so! Thanks.

Umm i don't think u can blame him yar she was rich doesn't mean he can't love her and how can u say she might be into others cuz she's rich

Thank you. Really appreciate it! I just needed to hear some affirming words. 

I don't think you should communicate with her, it is pretty natural that you would miss her someday but eventually this feeling will go buddy

You shouldn't contact her dude....u both ended things month ago!
If you are gonna contact her then things will turn into mess...and this new thing will NOT end on a good note 

I think it's kinda normal to miss the ither person after a breakup it's difficult to comeback to the old normal life where she's not there....idk if it was so toxic i don't think u should go back cuz it can be the same only again but idk for sure

3am Thoughts

Why can't I leave her permanently, i still think a lot about her.
Why did i accept her follow request i really don't know...now im thinking should i remove her...i feel pain when i see her but i still wanna keep her close.
I really got no idea what to do.

Theres a girl that I want to get to know. But I dont know how. She lives in the same residence building as me at a university. What do I do?

Relationships

My best friend and I had an argument or we can say a fight.. about a boy who claimed that he likes her so much(about 1 year ago)..and he chased her so hard..he was such a creep! I just teased her in a kidding way..bt she took that srsly & spoke so much.. (even some things that she wasn't supposed to speak)..now we both are so mad at each other..& it has been few days..we've not talked..or approached eachother...🥺😔 What should I do at this moment??

Frustration

I just wanted to get this off my chest.

The year was 2015. I was in high school, and there was this girl that I knew that had a crush on me, because we kinda used to talk and we had friends in common. I kinda neglected her, but not in a rude way, I just didn’t want anything at the time (or I really wasn’t paying much attention). In our school,  we had this thing on Valentine’s Day where people could send anonymous messages in a heart-shaped piece of paper. I received a letter from this girl (even though it was anonymous, I knew it was hers), and after that my vision of her began to change. I started seeing her differently, as I began to like her more and more and more... We ended up dating for a while, and it was amazing, but because we were in high school and kinda nervous around each other, we managed to break up and slowly grow apart (I don’t remember exactly how that happened). After that, it was pretty much downhill, as the years started to go by, she moved to another school, and later to another state. 
This brings me to the end of the year 2020, in the midst of the pandemic. I was reorganising my room, throwing some old boxes out and cleaning things, when I found that heart-shaped piece of paper that I got from her years before. As I read what was inside, a strange feeling was taking over my body. That type of feeling where a whole movie goes through your mind, of all things that happened before/could’ve happened if things had been different. I remembered when we were dating, holding her hand, texting her at night… I became obsessed with this idea that she was the one that got away, and i had to do something about it. I still had her Instagram, so I texted her and sent a picture of the heart-shaped piece of paper, saying something like “I still have this… still think of you”. After that, she appeared to be fond of me contacting her that way after a long time, and we started texting each other like every day. Things were going great, until the day she came to me with the question i was fearing the most “hey, I wanted to ask you… what did you mean when you sent me that picture? Why did you do that?”. I didn’t know what to answer because I myself didn’t really know why I did that, since I knew she wasn’t living elsewhere… but I came clean, saying that I really though we could be together and I really missed her. Her response wasn’t much warm, she basically said she missed me too but didn’t want anything, and that “sometimes it takes a pandemic to do some things”  probably referring to me saying all that stuff. (Continues in the comment section)

I want to hold her so badly, but I and she are so far apart that she has a lot on her mind, but she's seriously troubled, and I want her back on my relationship

Breakup

I feel really bad, there hasn't been a single day I haven't cried ever since this year started. 
there's someone who I really miss, I can't get over her, I loved her and I still do. I hate myself for not doing anything now I regret everything. It kills me to know we could've been together in this exact moment but we aren't and seeing her living her life while I'm here secretly dying it's what is killing me. Am I really overreacting? is this how everyone feels after falling in love for the first time? cuz i think ill never find anyone like her bc I've never met someone as good as she is.  She's an angel, i wish she knew how worth it she is, her heart is made of gold. Just the fact that she existed changed my life and if it weren't bc we met idk if ill be here today, how can I let her go? if she's my happiness, my home, the only person I actually like, the only one whom I feel safe around. Everyone else feels so distant and meaningless to me, how can i love someone else? But now we don't live in the same town, covid is around and  my parents don't let me go anywhere we are never going to see each other again and idk how not to lose touch, it's time to let go after all i doubt she'll ever feel the same. But still i can't do it cuz trying to forget her hurts me even more. I feel so jealous of everyone who gets to be next to her, who gets to see her every day. I hate everything and I can't take it anymore.

Love

It’s been 3 months since she left me. I’m unable to maintain the no contact with her. I still feel like she is my soulmate and I’m trying to reach out to her many times to fix things but she has blocked me from everywhere. I can’t get her out of my head. I still feel like she is with me and if I move on with someone else then I would feel as if I’m betraying her. How do I stop this feeling ? Will I be able to love someone ever again ?

I just got out of a 3 year relationship a few months ago and it was my first one and it just hurts the worst even more now because I found out recently that she's already started liking the guy who helped her out of her breakup depression. Albeit, she's known him for years and always been good friends with him but he admitted he wants to marry her etc. but she's not ready for any of that rn because that's why we broke up because we both needed to get more mature and be in control of our lives instead of being toxic and immature, which would never have led to marriage. I chose to break up because we both had mental health issues and we just couldn't help each other anymore. I had supported her for a year and forgotten to take care of my own self and I suffer now but she forgets all that and focuses on the mistakes I made instead and resents me for breaking up even though I did it so both of us could get better first because we couldn't tackle it together anymore. idk what to do anymore, I wish I could move on but I still love her and she told me she still loves me too but I obviously have to move on because its just so unfair.

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