I broke up with my boyfriend whom i met on tinder. We were in a serious relationship since past 3 months but i used to think about our future. He wishes to get married after 5 years and i cannot wait for five years
Everything was good, he treated me so well, still i had to break up considering our future together
Theja Prajesh @_xoxo_
Have u met in person?
Yes, he lived in the same city and visited me daily
Of course we love each other, but he is insisting that we should be friends and doesn’t want to loose me
Thinking of future is good but yk what sometimes it’s worst.We hve to stick to present to live happily nd peacefully. Don’t u think it wasn’t good decision for breaking up with him for such a reason. Maybe being in relationship with u may change his mind after some time. yk time changes everything.Think of ur bond na .U r destroying ur present for the sake of that future which no one can predict exactly
His family is too conservative to accept me since we’re from different caste and i don’t think he’ll ever be able to take stand for me
Your words are healing
Hve u discussed this issue with him? Can’t u make him into confidence for taking a stand for whom he loves,for u? If we consider this issue,then breaking up at early stage is correct coz after some period,as relationship matures,bond becomes strong nd builds a different level of understanding .At that phase,breaking up isn’t that easy nd haunts afterwards .
Glad,it helped u
Exactly 💯 u are right
Hve u suffered this type of situation too?
lucky kushwaha @happy_soul...
What’s your age group buddy.?
Real man always wants to provide best things to his partner, it takes time for a person to settle down as marriage is much larger than love, it needs understanding, respect and bills to be paid on time. I guess, you both need different people to be with. So, yes, you took right decision.