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Chitra @myupdate

I broke up with my boyfriend whom i met on tinder. We were in a serious relationship since past 3 months but i used to think about our future. He wishes to get married after 5 years and i cannot wait for five years

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Chitra @myupdate

Everything was good, he treated me so well, still i had to break up considering our future together

Theja Prajesh @_xoxo_

Have u met in person?

Chitra @myupdate

Yes, he lived in the same city and visited me daily

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Chitra @myupdate

Of course we love each other, but he is insisting that we should be friends and doesn’t want to loose me

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Mayank @true_who

Thinking of future is good but yk what sometimes it’s worst.We hve to stick to present to live happily nd peacefully. Don’t u think it wasn’t good decision for breaking up with him for such a reason. Maybe being in relationship with u may change his mind after some time. yk time changes everything.Think of ur bond na .U r destroying ur present for the sake of that future which no one can predict exactly

Chitra @myupdate

His family is too conservative to accept me since we’re from different caste and i don’t think he’ll ever be able to take stand for me

Chitra @myupdate

Your words are healing

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Mayank @true_who

Hve u discussed this issue with him? Can’t u make him into confidence for taking a stand for whom he loves,for u? If we consider this issue,then breaking up at early stage is correct coz after some period,as relationship matures,bond becomes strong nd builds a different level of understanding .At that phase,breaking up isn’t that easy nd haunts afterwards .

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Mayank @true_who

Glad,it helped u

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... @sony_12

Exactly 💯 u are right

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Mayank @true_who

Hve u suffered this type of situation too?

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lucky kushwaha @happy_soul...

What’s your age group buddy.?

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Zealous @aidinghearts

Real man always wants to provide best things to his partner, it takes time for a person to settle down as marriage is much larger than love, it needs understanding, respect and bills to be paid on time. I guess, you both need different people to be with. So, yes, you took right decision.

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