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Anonymous

I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. He cheated. And the worst is he didn’t even try to come back or make a genuine effort. It’s been over 4 months but I’m not able to move on. He just says he’s guilty and that I deserve better.
It really was a good relationship, I don’t understand why he wouldn’t put efforts even after he’s the one who cheated. I tried my best to talk him into it, but no real outcome.

I feel lost. I’m having a hard time moving on. It sucks more cause he isn’t even putting me in a place where I can decide whether to forgive him or not. Anyone has any advice?
PS. I’ve tried engaging myself in my hobbies, it helps sometimes but when I start spiraling again it gets worse.

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Anonymous

Yeh to us moment hogaya 🥲

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Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2

He wants to leave you mitr

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Anonymous

Accept kaise karte hai

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Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2

Chat mai jaiye mitr aur request mai mil jayega apko un shaks ka request

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Açha Bacha @soft_forest_2

Ap request accept ka puch rahe ho na

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Anonymous

How should I let go I’m unable to do that. It feels unbelievable that I could love him for so long and he wouldn’t even try to fix things…

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Anonymous

Hi di sis. I am having the same issue. I had 5 year relationship. Actually we’re best frd for 3 year. He himself proposed .did efforts and came in relationship. Now everything is changed. He cheated with his another female frd. I forgive him .and now he is so changed. I am so depressed to not likely to eat and sleep even. Can I talk .if we could help each other.

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Anonymous

Hey, I’m so sorry this happened with you. And yes, I’d love to talk. We could help each other. ❤️

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Anonymous

Drop your username, I’ll send you a request. So we can talk there :)

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How to connect

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Anonymous

I just sent the request. Can you check if you received it?

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Yes I have accepted it . Actually I’m new here so .I am not able to use the app .could u pls message me

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Raza Khan @thegentleguide

To be honest, he has lost interest in you because maybe…maybe he has already moved on from you for a long time he was with someone else.

Don’t contact him, focus on yourself.
Talk to a friend or your parents or get a listener who can help.

Text me if you need help but care for yourself.

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Can we connect?

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Anonymous

Same issues with me… am really sorry tht i could relate but one thought that keeps me going is let them theory "let them do whatever they want " you just watch i know it hurts a lot but we are not chasers man why do we have to run after someone … keep your head high and slowly accept the fact that he is not yours… jaane do jisko jaana hai… he wont be the same person even if he comes back too!!!

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Anonymous

I’m sorry too, and thanks for this comment it really helped. We’ll get through this. ❤️

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