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Anonymous

I broke up with my 5 year LDR boyfriend because of lack of understanding.
Deep down ik this was the right thing to do for both of us. We patched up again only a week ago and have had arguments 5 times since then. So It was better we part ways. But I’m feeling very guilty.
Did I even do the right thing?
What if my decision was wrong?
What if I regret?
What if I lose him forever?

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You wore your grown up pants and you took the decision which was eventually gonna be harder, more heartbreaking and the relationship would have gotten work. You did not do the wrong thing. Sometimes doing the right thing also makes us extremely sad. But you were brave, you did not give into emotions but rather took the decision from the reality you’d know. Be proud of yourself. Remember the reasons why you had to break up. Not that you didn’t love enough but sometimes love isn’t enough.
And you’re not alone feeling guilty after giving up on someone you loved while you still loved them. I can attest to that. Just focus on yourself now, take good care of yourself. Be understanding and kinder to yourself for trying. And then doing the right thing. 🫂💖🌼 Sending you hugs and all the love you need for healing. It’s not easy to let go of people we love and put so much of ourselves in. Just don’t get back together or it’ll become a pattern. It’s not good for any of you. Just know you did the right thing.

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*worse

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Anonymous

Thank youuu sooo muchhh for those kind words ❤️🥺 means a lott

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Ricky @ricky_

There is no need to regret if we are not the cause of the break up and if you tried your best to maintain the relationship. But if we are the cause of the break up, then we can try to remain friends with them and try to sort things out. Don’t worry too much, probably you did your best from your side. Try to remain as good friends if you can’t be good lovers. Take care 🧡

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Anonymous

The problem was lack of understanding.
He didn’t understand what I said and he didn’t wanted to say anything (cuz that will hurt me- this is what he said)

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