I broke up last year and I'm still not recovered from it.
Probably the lowest point of my life and there's no one to talk. Feels like everyone is responsible for making me so lonely.

im trying my best but somehow i got a feeling that I'm losing my emotional side.. I'm finding it hard to attract to anyone else since then.. I've been approached by some other person for the relationship n i just don't feel anything about anyone anymore 

You are just thinking too much . Stop thinking and concentrate on the actions. Like get involved in activities you like or you are into. Make your mind distracted with such activities 

Breakup

What are the things that i need to
Know in the very first meeting of my long distance bestfriend … i’m so nervous.

3am Thoughts

god i swore i wouldn’t play this age-old game. fruitless complaints abt loneliness. it’s so common that hearing abt it makes me want to peel my skin off. the thought of another individual pummeling through the same tiresome experience irks me.

Life

Don't get trapped in the name of loyalty. Loyalty doesn't mean you take unlimited pain.


Out of all the characters in friends, i liked Chander the best. The guy had that same sarcastic humor as me.  It was the one episode where phoebe dates a pychologist or something and he dismantles the toxic traits in everybody. Coming to Chandler, he points out that uses self deprecative humour to hide behind his lack of love from his parents and it was that moment that i was like, "Damn! I am Chandler!" We dont even realise how often we use self deprecatory language to make upfor our lack of confidence and self love. It used to fit in, to not seem threatening or topacify more dominant personality types. If Im already pathetic enough, they wont make fun of me right? It seems better to laugh with them. But, it is soo much more damaging than it seems. You are giving other people a free pass to walk all over you, degrde you and strip you off your importance. I have begun to consciously refrain from joking about myself in a negative way or to encourage others from doing so. Its a small step but its a leap to take back your assertiveness, your personal power.

Mental Health

Don't jump to love or commit someone when you aren't sure about them or about yourself. It happens gradually. Give the other person , the time and the required space. 

Relationships

Humsafar mein toh h humsafar h nhi 🥺🥺

Lonely

I'm so single🤌
Maybe I don't need anyone😎
it'd be nice to have someone to grow old with and rely on😭
Nahh!! I'm a strong independent woman😤
Imagine all the cute dates I would go on🤧
Noo I don't have time for it😑
But the cute cringy couple things🥺🥺🤗
Ewwww🤮....
What's wrong with me 🤌😩


my best friend is not with me now we just don't talk now its been a year and i still cant forget her we use to have the greatest bond but suddenly we stop talking due to some reasons i don't know if i will ever talk to her again🙂

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