I asked my gf if they miss their ex and they said yes but in a friendship way not romantically. I understand that they were together for a long time and that they were once best friends and I appreciate the honesty, however I do not like the idea that she misses them even if it’s out of a friendly place. I get missing the memories but not the person. In my opinion she still misses them because she is not completely healed or she hasn’t fully closed the chapter. She did try to reassure me that she loves me and that she never has loved someone as much as she has loved me but it still bothers me.
She didn’t even say she understood my point of view, she never once denied that it isn’t true that she hasn’t fully completely healed , that she will eventually stop missing her ex …
Has anyone gone thru this ?
Am I just wrong ?