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I asked my boyfriend if he is thinking about us marrying in the future and he told me it will be very difficult for him to convince his family since we are from different castes.
Since then i am not able to let that thought get off my mind. Now I am very confused. Should I continue dating him and see how things goes or should I breakup with him?

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uday gupta @uday95577

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You should ask himโ€ฆ if he give you assurity that he will convince his parents by hook or by crook then you should continue dating himโ€ฆ and if you find him suspicious then i think you should breakup with him

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Preeti maadabaradu madidare jagakke hedarabaradu.๐Ÿคท -its in Kannada -if u did not understand i will translate ๐Ÿ˜

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Anonymous
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Yeahh please translate

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Anonymous
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Pleasee do translateโ€ฆ

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Either donโ€™t Love, if u do donโ€™t be afraid of any force on this earth.

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Anonymous
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Woww thatโ€™s a nicee one

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Anonymous
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A great one. Thanks!!

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yash khatri @yash777

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Its very difficult to answer but it is in your hands more

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You should continue dating if he truly loves you then he will convince his familyโ€ฆ
I donโ€™t know in what tone he said thatโ€ฆ
If you had noticed in his tone that he is doing timepass with you than you can ditch himโ€ฆ

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Anonymous
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Thankyou for your response ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Anonymous
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First of all you have to understand whether he is loving you wholeheartedly or notโ€ฆif he is serious about you then he will convince his parents. This can be known by talking to him, way of tone while speaking about this and allโ€ฆ if you sense that he is having a timepass relationship then itโ€™s better to part ways but before parting ways think twice and then take a decisionโ€ฆ best wishes for whatever decision you takeโ€ฆ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

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Thankyou so much for the response. I donโ€™t think he is doing timepass. Letโ€™s hope for the best ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Ask ur boy friend one question was he not aware of this conflict in the beginning itself - he could have stopped it at that point itself -why bring it so far and play with other person feelings ๐Ÿ˜ก

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I am pretty sure that he was not playing with my feelings. It was just something that we both knew somewhere that it is going to be difficult. But thanks for your response ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Thanks for your response ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Priyansh Garg @priyansh98

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If you have asked him this then you are already to attached to him and it wont be easy to pull back nowโ€ฆagree? And in an attempt to pull back you will fuck up your mind. So just let things go as they are going. PS- Everyone is afraid of their parents and he has not denied to try.

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True that ๐Ÿ˜Š Thankyou for truly understanding my situation and giving a great response. Totally agreed with the PS(never thought that way) โค๏ธ

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Why was he wasting your time for all this time then

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