i am writing this cause i fell really demotivated of my personality. since two weeks i have kept every thing bottled up. i could not say anything to my family,they never understand,my friends ,well they have their own issues.
i am really bubbly and chubby girl since childhood. i never actually cared about what people thought about me,yet made sure i do not make a fool out of my self. i have a really small friend circle and they are really amazing souls. i was very self confident and always thought that my looks are never gonna affect me and my thoughts
long story short i started having crush on this guy, who is way out of my league. yet i could not stop falling for him. we were hi bye friends,never actually talked that much in fact. i still had hope that he would like me until his friends actually shipped us both which made things even worse. we never talked after this whole thing happened. he started ignoring me even more, but when his friends are not around he behaves different . ofc i was not too dumb to notice this and i tried to get him out of my head. well one fine day believing all of this was true i gathered the courage to ask him out. i know i was dumb but something about him makes me think like this. and the soooo obvious happened i got rejected on my face. this guy, sorry, this player out there literally started criticizing me.
ofc i was never affected by anyones words before so did his , but then i realized what he meant is right.
i am really not able to figure out my true self and i get lost every time i try to. i really meed someone to help me out with this situation.
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