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Anonymous

I am supposed to get engaged in july.
I told my mom i will buy lehenga for myself. She said no need, come home, we will buy cloth and get it stitched for you.
Why do they need to get it stitched if required readymade is already available.
They didn’t let me decide whon I want to marry, now I can’t even decide what I want to wear.
I hate my parents, I hate my life.

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numan @numanisbhat

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Wow congratulations ! Now finally you can sing lehenga song . Anyways best of luck . But why couldn’t you decide to whom you are gΓΆnna marry?

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Anonymous
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Don’t you know how to read??
What are you congratulating me for?? Do I sound happy in my post?

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numan @numanisbhat

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Matalb ab kab lehenga lana b decide ki ho that means you are happy

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Anonymous
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Bhai tu pura c hai kya?

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numan @numanisbhat

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Lag toh raha hai tunai p rakhi hai

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numan @numanisbhat

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Waise khush kyu ni ho ?

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Anonymous
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Abey tu ja yahan se
Mera already dimaag kharab ho rakha hai, teri bakwas sunn k aur nahi karna
Baksh se mujhe.

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numan @numanisbhat

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Calm down ! May you get what you want in life . Bye best of luck

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Anonymous
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LolπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.
P. S - no sis, not laughing at your current situation but definitely over this covo. What a gold man he is to be this dumb πŸ˜‚πŸ€Œ

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numan @numanisbhat

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And you are ultra stupid who is reading comments i mean how you get this amount of time . It’s her fault ye gr walo ko smja ni pa rahi . Anyways i again wish her best of luck

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Anonymous
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So u don’t like the person who u are getting married to?

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Anonymous
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No

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Anonymous
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What does he do?

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Anonymous
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Why?

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Anonymous
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You wanna marry him?

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Anonymous
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Heck no, I was just gonna say from the post he is in whether he is good or not, for you, if he is on a good position I would’ve said to stay if not then maybe do what u like to and not listen to anyone, only if you are confident about it

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Anonymous
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Just like paros wali aunty ji. πŸ™Œβœ¨

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Anonymous
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Damn… It’s what we call Life …
Btw I hope u the person whom you are getting married to (chosen by parents) will recommend your mom to wear the lehenga you want to wear. It will work . Try to do that … talk to him about it

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Anonymous
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I already did
He is completely useless.

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Anonymous
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Then don’t marry him, convince your parents that you don’t wanna marry him,

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Anonymous
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U did .?
What was his reaction and what did he tell you after you put your wish infront of him …

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Nice of you to think I didn’t try

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Anonymous
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He said it would be better if you come here then we can get matching clothes
What rubbish is this? I said i will send you pics, you can buy according to it
He is having wfh so he is at home, why am I expected to travel back home every f ing time
And his mom said that come a few days before the engagement, place order, then go back, then come again during the engagement
I was like you finance my trip then b it ch
I will take revenge for everything, with interest.

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Anonymous
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Hahahahha lol
Like seriously are they all educated . I mean your future in-laws. Wtf , if you wanna order only then u can order from the city u are living in, what will the difference lol πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Also may I ask you some questions?
It’s really important…
Add me

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Anonymous
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They have 2 daughters
Still talking all this rubbish
I hope they get treated way worse by their in laws

Ask here only whatever you have to ask, I don’t connect.

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Anonymous
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Seriously, you really can’t read
Did you even check whom you are replying to
I didn’t use even a single cuss word when I replied to you and still this shameless behavior
Get your eyes checked bro.

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Anonymous
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Well they are your future sister-in-laws lol πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
Don’t curse them because, if they come back home . Your burden is going to be added up lol

Btw that questions are bit personal so i told you that …
@joker279
This is my I’d if you want to connect

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Anonymous
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Yes I did, plss you get your eyes checkedπŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”πŸ˜”

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Anonymous
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Ignore. Just a weirdo like your in-laws lol .
He is commenting on my comment and still telling you to behave without any logic or reason …

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Anonymous
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Ikr
Why not just accept their mistake
How does he know to address you as she

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Anonymous
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Wow
Such kind words from the person telling others to have some manners
Hatts off

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Anonymous
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I don’t care whatever he is saying… that’s why I said ignore… he is just trying to be smart and get attention lol

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Anonymous
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U don’t see the person telling C to almost everyone who were just trying to help, what was their mistake? What was my mistake that this person literally told me C ??? You CANT SEE THAT DO YOU???

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Anonymous
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When I didn’t say anything to you, you shouldn’t have lectured me, no one has hired you here to speak on their behalf
And are you seriously favoring someone who is saying to go to sarojini?? Like how is that even relevnat to my problem??

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Anonymous
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Main mudda bhul k you are just concentrating on unnecessary things. Just chill bro … Aisa karega toh sab C hi bolenge…

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Chhodo yrr, uska pb bada hai, usko solve krte

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Anonymous
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And when I am obviously not happy, which is very clear from my post, how do you think I will feel or react when someone CONGRATULATES me for something I m not happy about?

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Anonymous
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K fine no problem, just calm down , thande dimaag se soch behen,

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Anonymous
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I have been crying since 8 PM
Now I am having headache as well, and have office in morning

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Anonymous
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Let it be…
They won’t understand…
Like instead of solving or making you feel relaxed they are just making you more angry lol
That’s why I said to talk in peace … ✌🏻 not here …
Otherwise whatever I will ask or comment they will keep on interrupting

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Anonymous
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Oo cool
So what were you thinking and what were the thoughts that came in your mind

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Anonymous
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I didn’t wanted to make u cry, I’m so sorry, don’t worry everything will be fine, it’s not like I am not understanding this, I have seen a lot of girls suffer from this these family marriage matter, don’t be the one,

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Anonymous
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I won’t invite any of my friends, I will not post pictures anywhere

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So sorry behenπŸ˜”I sincerely apologize

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Anonymous
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I m not crying because of you, so no need to say sorry
I m crying beacuse of what all I wrote in post.

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Anonymous
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Oo c’mon I mean this day comes once in a whole life. You should try to get over it through small happiness like enjoying with friends and all. Atleast some happiness will be there if you are with friends

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One thing I asked them, that they let me decide what clothes I wear
I m changing my location, they are giving huge amount of β€œgifts” (if you know what I mean) , I have to travel back home multiple times
I said not to do all these things, but still they are doing it
Don’t I as a bride have the right to atleast wear what I want?

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Obviously you have the right to choose what to wear even you have the right to choose your groom too but as you said it’s not in your hands so atleast this could be your choice …
Why don’t you say that you will do it all by yourself and choose your lehenga from the city you live in ?

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I did, i was scolded for about an hour
That’s why I’m crying since 8 PM

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Anonymous
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OOO
Don’t cry pls… see I am not saying it won’t hurt you but also crying is not good too …
Just call one of your friends wherever you are living . And then have some support 😁
Okay πŸ‘πŸ»

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Okay

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Yeah
And eat well too
Also sleep in peace …
Tomorrow after office you can discuss it too okay πŸ™‚πŸ‘πŸ»

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Okay
Bye
Gn

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Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279

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See ya later πŸ‘‹πŸ»
Swt ngt good drms tk cr ks
Eat some food and don’t cry more too okay πŸ‘πŸ»

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Yes

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Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279

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Yeah
Text me whenever you want
I mean tomorrow or some other day

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Anonymous
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Sure

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Anonymous
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Ek kaam kro sarojni chale jao
Parents bhi khush,tum bhi khush

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Aur duniya k sabse gyaani aadmi, aapse kisne kahan main delhi ya uske aas pass rehti hun??
Kya aap mujhe aur meri parents k delhi tak k aane jaane aur wahan rehne ka pura kharcha uthane wale hain?

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Main kyu uthaun,merese kaun si shaadi ho rhi tumarhi
Main toh tumhare fayde ki baat kr rha tha
Ladka toh pasand hai nhi kya pta aage chale na chale,toh accha lehenga le ke krogi bhi kya

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Anonymous
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Tu bhi us non anon user k jaise c hi hai

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Anonymous
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Sab c dikh rhe hn isliye toh tujhe wo ladka pasand nhi aa rha
Mummy ne lagta hain kuch smaj ke hi bola hai

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Ji huzur

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Is there anyone you love?

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Anonymous
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No

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Anonymous
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What?
What kind of a language is this?

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Anonymous
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Tumhare fiance bhi bada toxic lag raha hai, tumhare mummy papa ko yeh nai dikh raha kya ki ye abhi hi aaisa karha hai toh aage kaise karega, yarr kisi Tarah convince kro apne parents ko, nai toh aage life barbaad

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Anonymous
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Mere parents ko starting se hi mere alawa sab ache lagte hain
Unke hisaab se duniya mein agar koi sabse badsurat, baddimag, beekar insaan hai, to wo main hun
Main life mein chahe kuch bhi karlun, wo kabhi mujhse khush ho hi nahi sakte
Mujhe bolte tumhari pasand bilkul bhikariyon wali hai kapdon ko leke
Mujhe sab bolte hain main bahut decently dressup hoti hun, aur mostly mere kapon k links bbi lete hain khareedne k liye
Par phir bhi dekho mere parents mujhe kaise treat karte hain

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Damn this is difficult

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Anonymous
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@banisinghvasir please check this profile she is using inappropriate language. She thinks she is the only intelligent user here.

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Anonymous
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You go take english lessons if you think by reading all comments that I think of myself as the most intelligent user

And FYI, you can just block me and ignore my post if you are that offended.

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Anonymous
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Dude you wrote β€˜marwale g’ even when J didn’t say anything to you, and you are the one complaining?
Do you have no shame?

Kunwar Pratap @steady_mon...

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If you aren’t ready for marriage then try to raise voice and say no? I think it’s a more important point here than choosing lehenga? I’m more worried about that.

Kunwar Pratap @steady_mon...

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If you say to you future in laws that you are being forced to get married, say you have a boyfriend. Will your parents threaten you?

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Anonymous
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Yup

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Shaadi sai ap khush nahi ho to mana krdo aur lehenga ki jaha tak baat hai to ap kaho ki mujhe jo pasand aayega mai wahi krungi

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Abe mana karde bs or Ghar pe hi reh, jitna kamati hai utna kamati reh… Thoda nhi poori selfish BN ja

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