I am someone who went from having an amazing group of friends to having hardly anyone I could trust in less than a year. Forgiving and forgetting is one of the most important part of friendships yet some people will never understand that. They will choose to not see the things you’ve done for them. They will forget about all the times you were there for them and will complaint about the one time you weren’t. Everyone makes mistakes . You need to learn how to forgive and move on. And having 2 people in your life is so much better than 10 people. Quality over quantity. Be with people who invest in you and support your life goals. Letting go of toxic friendships is one of the hardest things I’ve learned this year . But I am happy to be surrounded by genuine people. 

And having 2 people in your life is so much better than 10 people. Quality over quantity. THIS IS SO TRUE!

Relationships

What do you guys think of Indian politics??

3am Thoughts

I was so happy yesterday, Had a nice long chat with my crush, we talked about different things, and at no point did it seem like i said something wrong or did something, everything was fine, we were laughing n all.
But today i find out she unfollowed me and I can't think of a reason why.. 
I'm just making up reasons in my mind, as i like to overthink every possible outcome.
🫡🫡
Planning on asking the same when I meet her.
Happy Weekend.


Crush

I was talking to someone and listened to her issue and tried to advice what i think would be best but after that she left me in between when i was telling what has got me down recently . Why do people just care about themselves and their problems ? Isnt one supposed to expect some courtesy ? 

Acquaintance

It makes me sad and emotional too!! Sweet night song by v ! 💜

Love

I am Alone

Anxiety

Anyone wanna share their lovestory? I was in a long term relationship and it ended about 10 months back but I'm still stuck there!

Maybe listening about you guys will bring a sense of comfort and hope that I can move forward 
That maybe, there's someone better out there for me

Compassion

I'm so sorry but please don't think me weak, pathetic or attention seeker for what I'll say now..
I'm a 18 year old human and i recently gave my pre medical exam and i won't get my desired college this year so I'll be taking a drop for preparing again for it
But you know what, I'm completely broken because my friends are going to college and now I'm feeling left alone
No, actually the people whom i thought to be friends till now were just using me to pass their time, just to showoff through sns
So my friends left me, even my bestfriend
I failed my exam by not getting a decent college even after studying hard for past two years and i was just a financial burden on parents, i even gained weight by sitting and studying for long hours 
I know it sounds kinda stupid but this exam was everything for me since i put my soul into this and being introvert it's just so much hard for me to ask for help
I feel lonely and i always wanted to have someone who can say me, "i know that you're not okay"
Actually i help everyone how much i can but no one even cares for me, why?
I'm human and when i get hurt i cry and feel left, lonely and sad too
No one actually cares about my feelings 😓, and no one cares to ask me how I'm doing 
I've had a feeling of self harm since months and now i feel suicidal but the thing which is holding me is my family
I can't see them in trouble even after i go, i can't be selfish just to think about me even now
But i have feeling of self doubt, being useless, burden, and i feel like I'm a parasite who's sucking all my parents efforts by not getting results 
I sometimes feel like giving up on my dream of becoming dr but at the same time i want to hold on for a little more
I don't know what wrong I've done for my friends to leave me
Please give me some genuine advice🙏
I request you all, i think I'll not be able to handle this hard time now


Career

Having certain standards and boundaries are actually the good things to possess.
if you are being told not to have those or cut them down a little or something like go with the flow etc then just simply don't listen or ignore those peeps.
ps : having defined standards  have actually protected me from having low quality experiences.
this goes for both men & women.
so, you do you.
love & hope 


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