I am so sick of myself…its so hard to love myself…m always been a shy and introvert person…from many years i have been thinking of myself as a failure…and this feeling of worthlessness is getting worse…my brother and my cousins all have been good in studies except me…i dont even have a talent or hobbie to pursue…i feel like m good for nothing…m always been compared to others…my parents are doing so much for me and i feel so guilty for being so lazy and worthless. I have few friends but most of them are in relationships and buzy with their own life and noone among them have enough time to care about my problems…now i feel like i even dont have any true friends…i have anger issues too…i get irritated and angry even in small matters…i feel so terrible about myself…like m never good enough for anyone…noone likes me…
I feel to change my life and improve and concentrate on my studies and get a career and start loving myself but the next day i will be again feeling worthless and be demotivated…m so frustrated with myself…m trying but nothing is going right…m so done and exhausted with everything happening …i dont want to cry at nights feeling awful anymore but its like nothing good is gonna happen with me
its gona be ok nothing ever makes sence but it will be alright no need to have fright ♥︎
I feel the same too :(
I feel the same as well. It’s like you habe goals…but I don’t feel good about myself so I think it’s futile at times. Sometimes I think we have to just take a step back…or perhaps move one step at a time. I find it hard sometimes to take the advice give because I feel the same exact way. You’ll be okay though. Take some time away to just focus on you…maybe if that doesn’t sit right with you…focus on helping others. Everyone believe it or not has some “talent” in that they Are good at something…it doesn’t have to be art, singing…etc…it can be like…“I’m good at connecting with others” or something like “I’m great at listening”. It can even be that maybe you just like goin’ for a walk and enjoying nature as a hobby. Whatever that thing is do some searching…and continue to try and meet your goals…and again as someone who feels the same I hope this makes somewhat sense. I hope you’ll be okay…stay focused…uh the both of you…(o.p. and respondent)
Its isn’t easy…in fact it feels like impossible…trying everytime to feel better but the next day i will be stuck in the same phase where i would be feeling miserable about myself.
first throw your angry issue one day you will better no matter studies matter is how good we are studies too important but dont lose trust in you dont listen to others keep focusing on your goal
You know… I come from the same background. Well I still work on the “self-love” but I have achieved a lot. And I’m proud of myself! You might not see it now but you will be proud of yourself. If you ever feel alone, I can give you my social media so you can talk to me. I want to help you because I know that feeling. But I won’t make you do anything you don’t want. It’s your choice
Hi Aishwarya …
What do u like to do in Ur free time ?
Sleeping wow good
I would suggest you to go for a consultation. What you say may be symptoms of fatigue/ anaemia/ hypothyroidism. Don’t get it confused with laziness/depression. I was anaemic and was always tired/had no motivation to do simplest of the stuff. Only I got it corrected, I had the energy levels to keep doing the stuff that I once liked and enjoyed.