I am so fucking frustrated with my boyfriend. He is becoming an alcoholic and I have tried so hard for long to be there for him but it’s eating me up now but I also know he needs me.
Maybe try to give him an ultimatum or something? See if he at least cares and he tries… and if not… then there’s nothing else you can do…
I mean if he doesn’t want to be helped, you can’t force him. You have to let him go through what he has to go to make him realise what’s going on on his own…
I used to be one. There has to be some reason he is drinking. Did he have a bad childhood? Did he lose someone he loved? Talk to him and let him know that people care about him and that they’re willing to help him. Let him know that he needs help because more than likely he doesn’t see it. Offer to maybe go to therapy with him. If it comes down to it, tell him that it is ruining you. That you need to get away but that you’ll still be there for him…Again. He isn’t drinking for no reason. Figure out the reason, and try to fix it with him…Don’t let this ruin you mentally tho!
