I am really having troubles communicating with my friend. We seem to be in different walks of life lately and that we are not able to understand each other. She gets offended with my opinions and defends so much it is quite useless talking to her... But I do want to talk her.. But can't figure out how to... Both our egos are clashing I suppose... 

Give your friendship some time.
Every relationship needs space & a bit distance to realize & clear the air.
It might help.

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Maeve and aimee's friendship is goalssss.

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hey, 
so i have a friends and we've been friends for a very long time like more than ten years. 
and one day she texted me and she was complaining about her parents so i told her that her parents were right and she got pissed and said i dont ever support her i mean  i obviously dont want anything bad for her right and we did not talk for a little more than a week and when i tried texting her she didnt reply she came online a few times after i texted her but she did not reply. so basically i sent her a message on snapchat but she did not reply and all she sent me was a snap to maintain the streaks and it makes me feel horrible. i feel like im not a good friend and shes like my best friend and it just makes me angry and sad. 
idek what to do now cause i only have 2 goos friends and i really dont want to lose her
i mean i put the efforts and initiated the conversation but seems like she doesnt even care anymore.

I think I have lost a friend and sister for forever. We are cousins and were best friends. We fought once when we were kids (only 3) but after 2 years of visits we became friends and then we became inseparable. We frequently has sleepovers at each other's house, during and family function I used to search for her so that we could sit and talk about our life, had endless conversations. 
Then came the year 2020. Tensions increased between my family and her mother's sister's family. I was afraid that the family feud will ruin our friendship. We went to a family occasion and I didn't feel the same comfort, our friendship wasn't that strong anymore. 
Everything changed within one year, we don't talk anymore. I tried initiating conversations but didn't get any reply. We didn't talk since a year. That's how a family feud ruined our friendship. Once inseparable sisters became strangers. 

Tears are rolling down as I'm writing this post. Guys, cherish every moment with your loved ones, who knows it might not last forever. I have lost a lot of people and in general I'm not lucky with friendships as I end up losing precious people. 

3am Thoughts

What are your thoughts about unfriending people because of their political views? Idk if there are Filipinos here but they can relate more to this stuff, but anyways I'm open to everyone's thoughts about this.

I’m feeling drained because of our exam i feel that i can do it but i am worried if I can’t answer tomorrow i work slow, I kept thinking of my friends we are 4 in the group but i think just the 2 are the bff i am jealous of their relationship because E and I used to be the duo, I feel that i am a boring person that why she doesn’t care me anymore, they always feel me left out, i feel sorry also to the other friend whom i think she feels the same as mine, I’m always with her at the back following the 2, i feel sorry because i think she is also bored with me and wants to be with the new duo of E, I feel that J is fake and really doesn’t want to be friends with me she just care about me when she needs something, i also ovserved that she is also doing it with her other friends, we always go home together because we live bear each other, the friend that we used to be with also when going home shared that she felt J is caring for her when She needs something, she said that to our friend that is our friend also, I can’t leave my friend group but nowadays i dont care about it but i really cant stop thinking about it when i am supposed to study my exams tomorrow. I am thinking of having a new partner, she also goes with us home, but i think she likes J or hoing to my old bff but i am ashamed because i left her for my current friend group maybe its karma but i also have a reason, a girl that I don’t like is friend with her and its really annoying so i left her but still i love her.
I don’t want someone to be left out i am the person who will go with someone even i am with my friends, even i feel left out to them just so that someone isn’t. I also kept overthinking about something that isn’t needed. Ihope that i can answer my exams tomorrow pls pls pls

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So I have this kinda best friend who is happy with others but when with me she is alwaysss cribbing about her ex, one sided crush or new crush. And the way she speaks is just like spreading negativity.
She always had my ear, but she doesn't apply to some stuffs I suggest and nor does do nyhting to move on...
Now a days I am sort of ignoring her... I feel bad for doing that, coz maybe she needs my help but in past 4-5 years she has never used my help, I feel she doesn't want help to do anything about the situation 
I have been reading posts on social media of helping people and understand them but with her... I don't feel like helping, feels like she is fake or just attention seeker! God knows!  Please some suggestions on my now behavior towards her

I loved my best friend. I'm 21 and she's a yr and half older than me. I didn't expect it to be like that and I didn't forced myself to love her. It happened naturally.
I thought its wrong to keep my feelings inside and I expressed myself to her abt this. She understood me and told me that this relationship between us would never workout and she always saw me as a bff. I thought it's best to break the frndship cause I thought we would never look the relationship in the same way as we did in past. But she told me she can't live without me and she always wants to be on my side as a best friend and nothing else. I warned her it doesn't workout but she insisted me to be with her.l agreed to her and I told myself o be her bff and nothing more than that.
To add more fuel to the fire, she went abroad to study. I miss her everyday and she regularly calls me and i know she wants to be in touch with me. She's doing her part greatly to keep this frndship alive.
After months, she got new friends and slowly I started to see the decline. Even she got a new fling and they are living their lives out there.
(Btw I'm not complaining).
The problem is she expects me to behave like a proper bff and to react and support her but deep in my heart I honestly can't react like nothing's happened inside me. I even told her that I can't stand like a tree and watch this and explained to her that I need a break between us. Her reply was 'you can't be such a selfish man and leave me like that. You can't break or block me. You should be with me' ~ she told me this in a softer way.
I can't take a decision for myself ~ whether to stay with her and respect her bind with me whilst hurting myself or to prioritize me and leave her and do what's good for my life

One Sided Love

I'm really confused. I don't know what to do. From past 2 months my bestie's and my relationship is really bad. Like we fight every day on something. Like recently we decided that we will attend the same tuition classes but she made me wait 3 months then finally when I took the initiative and found one she said its really far then I found another which was near so she said its a new place so I can't go there and I thought she doesn't want to join classes with me and I confronted her. She changed the subject. She has a really bad habit of not realizing her mistake. The other day I was talking to her on call and suddenly she disconnected the phone I thought it was a mistake or something but then she said I'm eating breakfast I'll call you later.....so I told her to at least say goodbye before disconnecting then she started lying I did say goodbye you are deaf and all and then said I get upset on small issues. Its just we r fighting alot really badly. What should I do? Should I take a break for some time?

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