I am really confused. I am dating a guy for the past three years and we really love each other. Like we’re into love totally! But since a few months, we have been fighting a lot. Like a lot. We have even tried to talk about things and where are we lacking and everything. But even after that, we end up arguing, fighting, blocking each other, and then unblocking. I feel it’s getting really toxic but I don’t know what to do about it. We don’t wanna get seperated, taking breaks isn’t our thing either. It seems like we are pretty different from each but we’re too much into love that we don’t wanna get apart. I don’t know if I’m able to convey but yes, this it what it is. Can anyone help?
Akash Dalal @skybroker
THE ONLY PERSON HERE THAT CAN HELP YOU IS NON OTHER THAN YOU. MY FRIEND. :)
You’re right…
Puh.tato @kumkum
Even though taking a break isn’t your thing, I think it may help you big time. Which relationship doesn’t has fights in them. You both need to sit and talk it out maturely. Find out the core reason for the fights, work on them. But I really think that taking a break is what you need right now.
Makes sense. Thank youu. Wi surely consider that. :D
First of all you guys need to find out the root cause of your frequent fights. You havent mentioned for what you guys are fighting so idk. Once you solve that you both can stay peacefully.
We did. We talked about things and concluded things. But it keep happening. It’s like we both are short tempered, so during an argument, we both react very extensively. That’s the main issue w us. Gusse me fir communication gap hota hai and then misunderstandings…
Okay then one of you need to understand that arguing more will cause more problems. One of you have to stay calm and think more rationally. only this way you are going to solve. and please don’t fight over small things or for some third person. you both love each other and that’s what matters. Try to spend more good time and discuss about each other goals future etc. in this way you will stay from frequent fights and misunderstanding.