I am pretty sure I am getting married to a red flag
We are engaged now, but still he doesn’t share anything about his family or himself, and never even bothers to ask about my family.
He always wants to know where I am going and with whom, but never tells his details about himself.
Ask him directly all the things. Spill out your mind in front of him
Okay
Yeah, I do think about cancelling it, because we have been talking since November, so after this much time this kind of behavior is not acceptable
Think about the possibility of cancelling it.
I do, I did talk to my parents about it
We have been talking since nov, still he is behaving like this
Did you confront him directly?
Not yet, will do soon
I did tell him once that you expect me to tell you everything but don’t do the same, but still I don’t see any improvement
Decide on things after this. He maybe a good person but not your type. Anyway you should keep your future as a priority and make a hard call
Read this?
Nah I typed it before I read it.
What was his reaction when you said that
He said from now onwards I will telk everything, and he said this last month, no improvement
What do you think. Can you cope up with that kind of person who’s not very open. We can’t really say it’s a bad quality but if it’s not your type then you shouldn’t proceed i guess
I cannot be with someone who isn’t open about me
And that too when the other person expects me to share everything but himself doesn’t even share a single thing even when I ask him too
You’re parents are right it’s late now. But if you don’t take a call it will be too late. For a better future try to make a call soon
I think after 1-2 years I will be posting here that I am getting divorce.
Don’t let it go that far na. Can we connect?
As I said my parents won’t call of the wedding for this reason so divorce is the only way I see.
No we can’t connect
Your perspective is wrong. You can let your parents know what you feel and you decide to call off. It’s your wedding and life after all
Okay, I will try again.
All the best
Thank you
Naina Talwar @no_one8
Then break off the engagement… What are you waiting for girl?
For my parents approval.
Naina Talwar @no_one8
Are you not an adult? Or financially independent enough to take your own decision? Marriage is not a joke… You’re gonna suffer for life or at least for a long time if something is really wrong about that guy…
