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Anonymous

I am pretty sure I am getting married to a red flag
We are engaged now, but still he doesn’t share anything about his family or himself, and never even bothers to ask about my family.
He always wants to know where I am going and with whom, but never tells his details about himself.

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Anonymous

Ask him directly all the things. Spill out your mind in front of him

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Anonymous

Okay

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Anonymous

Yeah, I do think about cancelling it, because we have been talking since November, so after this much time this kind of behavior is not acceptable

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Anonymous

Think about the possibility of cancelling it.

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Anonymous

I do, I did talk to my parents about it
We have been talking since nov, still he is behaving like this

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Anonymous

Did you confront him directly?

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Anonymous

Not yet, will do soon

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Anonymous

I did tell him once that you expect me to tell you everything but don’t do the same, but still I don’t see any improvement

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Anonymous

Decide on things after this. He maybe a good person but not your type. Anyway you should keep your future as a priority and make a hard call

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Anonymous

Read this?

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Anonymous

Nah I typed it before I read it.
What was his reaction when you said that

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Anonymous

He said from now onwards I will telk everything, and he said this last month, no improvement

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Anonymous

What do you think. Can you cope up with that kind of person who’s not very open. We can’t really say it’s a bad quality but if it’s not your type then you shouldn’t proceed i guess

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Anonymous

I cannot be with someone who isn’t open about me
And that too when the other person expects me to share everything but himself doesn’t even share a single thing even when I ask him too

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Anonymous

You’re parents are right it’s late now. But if you don’t take a call it will be too late. For a better future try to make a call soon

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Anonymous

I think after 1-2 years I will be posting here that I am getting divorce.

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Anonymous

Don’t let it go that far na. Can we connect?

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Anonymous

As I said my parents won’t call of the wedding for this reason so divorce is the only way I see.
No we can’t connect

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Anonymous

Your perspective is wrong. You can let your parents know what you feel and you decide to call off. It’s your wedding and life after all

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Anonymous

Okay, I will try again.

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Anonymous

All the best

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Anonymous

Thank you

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Then break off the engagement… What are you waiting for girl?

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Anonymous

For my parents approval.

Naina Talwar @no_one8

Are you not an adult? Or financially independent enough to take your own decision? Marriage is not a joke… You’re gonna suffer for life or at least for a long time if something is really wrong about that guy…

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