I am not good at reaching out or asking for help. I think the reason is past disappointments. In that way I still don’t get help. They not gonna help me in this. I am not good with words. Idk what to say. Idk what I am venting lol. I am anxious actually. I can’t do my work without any help. Also I am and will be the most stupid person. Idk how to help myself. Ugh. I am very anxious and worrisome.
vishal jain @vishalljain
Don’t worry …
Always start with the smallest favor
I do manage things by my own mostly… but some things uk it’s big. I am new so.
vishal jain @vishalljain
Okay when was the last time you have ask someone to help ?
About the work it was yesterday
vishal jain @vishalljain
And what did they say then ?
Not actually helping tho. like just getting ignored. Just formally they ask. I don’t want such sympathy.
Take a deep breath when you feel like everything’s closing on you…even take a break if u need it… It’s okay to ask for help…even if you didn’t , just vent here or anywhere you feel comfortable with… don’t bottle everything up. I understand about past disappointments, thats why its in the past…so dont think about it much and stress yourself…You might even not know what your feeling at times…its totally fine…don’t blame yourself, okay? Your strong to come this far in life and for that, I’m proud of ya. If your thinking your the stupidest person, then join me in, we can be stupid together =) Your already helping yourself by passing these obstacles in life… Your future self will be so proud of you too. You got this! I believe in ya! Sending love and support <3
Ayy, Thank you!! :)
But Idk I am lost, Idk what I am doing. It’s overwhelming when it’s affecting others too.
Take a small step at a time…You’ll figure it out.
Hm. Okay :)
