I am missing how we used to spend time together, missing how he used to pay attention to me and would do anything to meet me , now things have changed he doesn't even give a crap , it's been 2 months since we've spent quality time together , he doesn't seem to care. I feel like crying as I do not want anyone else. Is there a way for him to go back to the way he was 🥲 . Manifesting a great great sex life ahead and lots of love from him. 🥺

He gone. 
If he hasn't talked about it and just idk mahn distanced himself it's better you also start detaching yourself because wishing that back will only hold you back from something or someone better in life, someone who will be consistent and if he feels different will share it with you. yeah mahn don't waste your time here. Wish him the best and look after yourself and your needs. 

3am Thoughts

Idk every guy here seems to be my ex... 
Bisi

Hi,
Recently I did something which I am feeling guilty about and I do not know how to process that guilt.
I have always believed in love more over physical intimacy. I am not someone who would go for hook ups or one night stands.
It had been two years since I have felt close to someone.
Recently I made a profile on a dating app. Matched with a guy, we talked for a few times before meeting. The meeting went fine. We went for drinks. And I was a bit tipsy.
Later he dropped me home. And asked if he can come over. Generally I would have said no to any guy but I don't know what happened that night I invited him over. Then we had few more drinks together at my place. 
Then one thing led to another and we ended up making out. After that night he said that he felt good with me but I don't know if it was my actual feelings that made me close to him or it was the alcohol or maybe the need of being close to someone. I did something like this for the first time in my life and feeling so guilty about it.

Sexual Health

I feel numb..
So, earlier my boyfriend used to compliment, appreciate and motivate whatever I used to do but now, he assures me that he loves me but doesn't treat me like he used to, this is the reason I don't feel like talking to him. I once told this to him indirectly but then too he didn't change.
Now since some days I'm a little busy with my work and I don't talk to him. It was almost 5days straight I didn't talk to him in place of thinking about that I was busy somewhere he got angry and is not behaving good with me.. he doesn't respect that I maybe busy somewhere, if he's free he wants me to be free n talk..I love him but I really don't feel like talking to him anymore.. what should I do?

Anxiety

I am here again, I ended my 7 year s relationship 8 months ago. I was almost dead. But super proud of myself that I picked up and built really good habits. A few days back I found out he is dating again. I feel so useless. He got a promotion too, doing better than me in his career and his new GF also is on a better profile than me.

I feel I am a loser or just a cursed person. though I improved on a lot of aspects of my life I know that but m still far away. I feel inferior to everyone else in my life. Everyone got promotions, all our common friends, it's just me stuck on the same designation. 

I am frustrated like hell, I want to do something big in my life and show him. I know all my emotions are very kiddish, But that's what I feel now,I don't want him but I want to do big in my life and I dun know-how, I am losing my patience. why things are so hard for me. Above all, I am lonely like hell. 

Career

what does it take to get over someone , been almost more than a year , but i still think about him .How do i get over him?

Love

I got back with my ex who had abandoned me because he had to settle down find a job after a year he happy birthdays his way into my life and starts acting normal . We met couple times until i was not okay w him being so normal as if he didnt do anything wrong so i asked him what are his intentions and i was ready to pet go of him finally then he throws the bomb of i was thinking we should get back together i cant lose someone who loves me fr. And since then i hoped and believe things will be different. Boy ive never been so wrong about anything before . HE ACTS LIKE I DO NOT MATTER AT ALL . Its a fucking disaster rn and if i try to fix it he will end up saying stay or leave . Its eating me upfrom inside i dont know what to do . 

Relationships

I feel stuck, it's been more than 2 months of my breakup and why do I still care about him?

Confusion

Do you ever feel so drained about a situation that you don't know how you're supposed to act or what you are supposed to say to/about it anymore? Because that is where I am at with this dude. I am super close with his best friends, I met them through him. They all live together right now. His friends want me to hang out with them when I come home for spring break next week. Before this past week this dude (we will call him Sam), Sam kinda stopped talking to me because I went off on him after he told me he didn't want a relationship after sending me very mixed messages and stringing me along. He still hasn't responded to me going off on him but just keeps telling me he wants to figure out the right way to respond. All of a sudden Sam is snap chatting me again and just talking to me like normal, friendly. His friends tell me that Sam told them he wants to be friends with me and makes jokes with them about how I could probably "pull them" and how I'd probably make them want to date me because of how nice and pretty I am. The moral of the story Sam is acting like a jealous boyfriend even though he and I never had the boyfriend/girlfriend title. I don't hate him, I liked him a lot. He was the first guy that I've ever liked more than a friend. And he is confusing me and still sending me mixed messages. I am more than okay with being friends with him but I need boundaries and this said friendship that he wants needs to be established. But here I am waiting for him to grow a pair and respond to my last message about what happened. I am just so frustrated and don't know how I should be feeling or responding anymore. 

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