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Anonymous

I am just exhausted of seeking attention and care from my BF…i feel jealous when he talks to his female friend (Though seldom but he feels happy after that)…i had a one side love towards him n felt out of the world when he proposed me…But he is a person who doesnot show care and love towards me all the tym…But he makes his friend feel happy (eg:by offering chocholates to her whenever he goes to meet her)…he has never done such things for me neither has he made me feel special…i just crave for his attention n care coz its my first love n i show so much of my luv and care. to him…i know it is selfishness but…😔

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Anonymous

It’s not selfishness, you just want to receive the same type of effort he does for other people. Tbh I wouldn’t be able to handle a relationship like that, someone who loves you will show it without you having to ask for it . Especially if he can do it for friends. I once had a bf that was the best of friend to all his group of friends but I felt like I didn’t receive the same effort or respect. I communicated once how I felt and since there wasn’t any change I left him. Self love is very important, know your worth, know what you deserve and don’t settle for less. Since it’s your first love it seems so difficult to leave them but trust me the world won’t end it will only get better after a while, and if you can’t leave him I just hope he starts showing that affection soon.

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Anonymous

Thanku so much for your valuable advice:-)

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