I am in love with my best friend where i am managing both my friend side and my love side . I usually don’t believe in relationships rather i choose a direct marriage. I know i love her but at the same time I know she is my friend . I know it’s difficult for her to accept my love as she is a good simple person with genuine sober calm nature.
She don’t bother about the feelings but yeah if she would have not been my friend I could have made an early exit . I am managing friend side such a way that i keep my ego side attitude side etc even I don’t spare anyone even my parents if they giggle with my self respect but for this girl i have to keep my this side away because i know if i took it to my ego then most probably i am gonna lose her . I ran back to her just because she is my friend and for a women it’s difficult to make move be it a friendship move or rship move she will think thrice before texting. I know there should be mutual love then it works but as a boy I don’t except a girl to be so that she make move in relations . One think about her is she don’t give a false hope or commitment what i liked the most . And i am mentally prepared ab jab tak sath hai tou hai bas . And what i feel is i am not too into the rship part kyuki i have seen 16years of rship which didn’t worked at all .
I care for her do everything possible thing . We are attached but i also know nothing is permanent in this world .
When you are not serious about her then why you care for her?
numan @numanisbhat
Who told you i am not serious but only after marriage. I care because she is a women with whom i am comfortable
Give her time , may be she is confused & you never know us girls
numan @numanisbhat
No you took it wrong i am not forcing her why should i her time I don’t need her assurance or whatever yes she is confuded . She has right to decide everything and she has cleared year ago and i know everything what’s cooking in there mind . I am doing my friendship part
Strong character from you my suggestion as a girl don’t keep yourself available for her if she isn’t interested . I was in a wrong relationship where i loved a person but he showed no interest at all and used me mentally and on other hand there was a person who had a feelings for me but i ignored him and the situation was unreal now i regret it would have been better if i would’ve choose a person who loved me . Similarly you are showing a bold role but let her go it’s my advice and mark my words as a girl if you avoid her for months you will win the race and trust she will come to you like the way went to my person it was my bad luck that he was committed that time . Keep your moral up
numan @numanisbhat
👍 sure
KJ @kjtj
Struggle is real.
numan @numanisbhat
This shall too pass bud
KJ @kjtj
Yeah
numan @numanisbhat
Utna b struggle nai 😜 we did our part
KJ @kjtj
Yea
