I am in love with my best friend. I’ve been in love with her the last eleven years, but I avoided her when this feeling got stronger, than I moved abroad but now I am back, and my feelings are still there. We’ve been in touch, and I think she knows my feelings, but we never talk about that. We have different lives now but the way we see each other is still the same. I don’t know what the best thing to do about that. I just cannot ignore this feeling anymore.
Dear Anonymous
I understand your struggle to try it find a way to tell her I would have to give it to you up-front and simple.
YOLO stands for You only live once I’m sure you know that so if you end up not telling her and you go through your whole life with this heavy weight bringing you down that you didn’t tell her I would just say get it over with and you know what? She might have the exact same feelings for you but you will never know until you try, and, if you HAPPEN to get rejected just remember at least now you know.
You are right… I’ve been feeling so anxious about that, I gonna talk to her soon probably, for me. Thanks so mush for encouraging me, I really need it to feel strong for that. 💚 Have a good day!
hey ,so i feel like you should ask her how does she view you.
Ask her does she love you in a way she cant explain. Tell her how you been feeling over these past years. You cant let fear get in the way of what can be true love
Hey guys, thank you so much.
I talked to her yesterday and I am feeling so good.
She says she never realized it, but she was super nice to me, she is a very good and calm person. But we still haven’t had enough time to talk more about it.
I don’t know yet how she feels about me, but let’s see how it goes.
The good thing is that I’m not anxious anymore… I don’t know how I could hold it for so long :)
Thanks so much, this place definitely gave me confident enough to solve it.
Sharing is love.
Have a good day 🌿
you know you should confess her first .in my case im in love with my bestfriend boyfriend
I really hope you find a way to manage it. There is always a solution for things. I recommend meditation, it brings us understanding. Best luck.
