I am in a relationship with a guy for about 2 half years. He is a type of very busy person, always at work. He thinks he’s always right. Now he is 28 years old and I am 20. I am young comparing to his age. Our thoughts and mindsets are really different. Girls at my age and the young commited girls surrounded by me are having fun with their young bf’s. And seriously I love to roam like them. But my bf is always bc that he couldn’t afford 10 minutes for me to call. He is in Kerala and I am in TN. Everyday I used to call him and open up my thoughts about him, he is so tired to hear those. He used to say I just came home, will call u later, will talk later like that. But he don’t call me. Nowadays I am not receiving any incoming calls from him. But i used to call him, he rarely pickup my calls, and say please don’t call me repeatedly, you’re repeated calls irritating me and he block me for 10 days if i ask him why type of questions. But whenever he need my help, he used to call me frequently and talk to me in a lovely way. Seriously I am tired of this relationship but can’t leave this fuckn guy. My mental health is not supporting me. But I know I am actually tired of this person. I just wanted peace. I need to end up this relationship. He is asking me to leave him continuously and seriously I don’t even want to be with him. But why I can’t do that. Someone please help. I am exhausted.
duggu 🤍 @baloon_717
Just move on dear…this relationship will just give you pain…not happiness… he’ll be happy but you’ll be the one who will suffer pain…i know it’s not easy to let go someone special…but sometimes we have to take such steps… you’ll suffer pain for some time …but onced you realise you made a right decision you’ll be happier in your life … always remember you are the only one who will understands yourself… always give first priority to yourself…love yourself more than someone else :)
Thara M @thara_mahe
Thank you ❤️
duggu 🤍 @baloon_717
Okay I understand your point of view :)
Vishakha Singh @vishakhasi...
I can completely understand your situation that you are going through, it really hurts when you care for someone so much and in return he’s not even showing that enthusiasm. I am sure that he must be your first that’s why your are so obsessed with him. I just want to tell you if a person is really in love with you,no matter how busy he is ,he always manages to make time for you. I can tell you that during starting days of your relationship he would be giving you so much attention and time but with time that interests starts to fade, the reason could be that he’s got so many other girls to invest the same interest the way he did in you. Better to focus on pleasing yourself. He’s driving you nuts and if you don’t want to get a broken heart as a scar ,it’s better to get aside quietly. If he cares for you he’d try to contact you.
Thara M @thara_mahe
Thank you. I understand
rohit mishra @rohitm1720
Hey Dear please focus on future with happiness this type of shit waste your time and you feel always unhappy so try go out of this shit this type of boys have no feelings and i know about this age your friends enjoy our life very happy and you also want this life so try to engage with those type of people who caring you give you the response understand your feelings and now I m also feel like same as you but I m trying to move on for my future
Thara M @thara_mahe
Sure❤️
jee @abhay353637
It’s easy to say move on if you try hard to go away you can’t because you have to understand your mind ,if i put a bucket outside my house and write don’t look into the bucket everyone try to see what’s inside without that notice rarely anyone notice what’s inside that’s how our mind works but it needs some mind exercise and other stuff to get out of this pre installed software that you have installed nd have used it repeatedly
Thara M @thara_mahe
I got it.
jee @abhay353637
Try yoga and meditation so you can uninstall your ove used software
Thara M @thara_mahe
Definitely I’ll try
jee @abhay353637
You need incessantly guidance app won’t help if you really want to get out of this i can help you because I have faced this situation but problem is time which i rarely have
Thara M @thara_mahe
I understand sir
vshn @my_self
It’s better to have someone close to your age, otherwise things won’t go so well.
Thara M @thara_mahe
Thinking about it.
sexy @chawan
I really don’t know how much can I relate to you problem.Its very obvious that it’s hard to leave people who are close to your heart but once you do that you know it was the best cuz you are not happy now .i can give you my example,it’s not the same case as it’s with you but i had this old friend ,we were together for many years,as growing up he started to ignore me.he stopped calling me which was a complete surprise to me because we were quite close but that’s alright .you cant be forever with the same person but you will always have the good memories with the person and that’s alright… life is all about moving on and finding the happiness on its way…once you move on you will regret but you will always think about the good memories.
Cheers
Plushie @ot7
Some kind advice sissy lock ur room sit on a bed and think about it if u love him give it a last chance if not just dump him girl ur precious cause ur a girl that is handling many roles think about it 👍✅💜 .
akhil kamra @akhil09122002
Talk to him and say you can’t live with him
If he will say that he will try to change than give him a chance otherwise leave him and try to enjoy your life
Thara M @thara_mahe
It’s two half years bro. I gave him multiple multiple chance. Begged him for healthy conversation. But his way of showing ignorance be blocking me. He never let me talk, if I talk he don’t listen. He says he is 28 years old and I am too young to talk against him he know everything. He says “I am a working professional, i don’t have time to talk silly, i don’t have time to talk, so and so”. I am really tired begging him mind me. Seriously I am done with his repeated fuckin actions. But I know he loves me but he don’t show. He never show love but he say that he loves me. Without minding or caring a gf, how can she be with him. I am exhausted.
Aadi @unburned
Single life is best for you now because your age is 20 so you should focus on education so forget it n study well
Thara M @thara_mahe
I completed my UG degree now. Got placed in a company. Have to start my work life. Thank you
Aadi @unburned
Congrats n focus on work then you’ll get a good life but don’t worry you’ll get a true love
Thara M @thara_mahe
Hye there. Hope you’re doing good.
Prabakar @prabakaruday
Hi
Thara M @thara_mahe
Hi
Prabakar @prabakaruday
How are you do know tamil
Thara M @thara_mahe
Hello there. I am doing fine. Thank you. How you you? Yeah I know tamil
Prabakar @prabakaruday
I am fine first of all don’t worry keep yourself calm you will find solutions
Thara M @thara_mahe
Sure
Prabakar @prabakaruday
Which place
Thara M @thara_mahe
Coimbatore and you
Prabakar @prabakaruday
Same
Prabakar @prabakaruday
Get my reply?
Adithya Rao @adithya3000
Same situation here…
If he is not wanting you and if he is openly asking to leave him… just leave him…if he really wants u then he’ll definitely come back… see… your life is only yours and it’s only for you …your emotions and feelings should not depend upon others …I know it’s hard to leave but that’s life …now it’s time to focus on your career… may be a you’ll get better person who understands abt u…time tells everything… just be patient and be yourself …now go on chase your dreams enjoy the life… everything happens for good and everything will be fine soon… just be happy and enjoy every moment…
