I am in a relationship and we both are studying in a professional course in a place together, we both are in same class, we joined this course as we will get job after this course. We don't like the environment here, I am so obsessed with my gf and I am always low I don't like to get up in morning, I don't feel like going to classes, I don't want to listen to lecture and I expect the same from her, and when she get more mark than me and when she listen to class and answers the question I get jealous and I mock at her and make her loose confident. I also feel jealous when she talks to other boys in class and I start ignoring her. I feel all this because I am alone and only depend on her I stopped talking to others after coming to this place

Hi. So I'll give you a girl's perspective on this.
My ex-boyfriend was also like this and had become obsessed with me in the last year of our relationship. We had dated for 4 years. We used to spend a lot of time together but it was never enough for me. He used to get jealous even if I used to meet my GIRL friends, let alone boys. He used to put me down and make me feel like I can never get anyone better than him. I used to feel very low and had no confidence. That really broke me. We couldn't work out our relationship and it ended after 4 years. After we ended it, he was very upset and felt alone because he depended on me.
 
But, after he got over me, after like 3 months, he approached me and told me how much he has grown as a person since our breakup. He has become more mature and more independent. He doesn't depend on anyone anymore, doesn't spend all his time on me or any other girl and focuses on himself and his career which he didn't used to do earlier.
 
I'm not telling you to breakup or anything. What I'm trying to say is that try to learn from my ex's experience. Try focusing on yourself and your career and profession. Make yourself your first priority. It will make you feel so independent and liberated. You will have a much better and secure relationship with your girlfriend then.
 
Hope this helps! All the best

Relationships

Well I don't really feel that great at the moment and I've been feeling "not good" lately, it's been over 2 months I've been feeling mentally exhausted, and because of me feeling this way I've started to distance myself from my friends and it doesn't feel right. Yeah that's all i guess.


Mental Wellbeing

what to do when feeling lonely and depressed? I have been feeling so alone for a while now and it has been affecting everything I do. I am not able to sleep well, i am not able to eat properly, it's as if i can not digest my food. what to do when feeling lonely and depressed??? everything feels so shitty, i do not even know who to turn to because of how ignorant my so called friends have become. They do not even care to greet me properly and just walk past me.I still try my best to be cordial towards them and i try to talk to them but even then they make me feel so lonely and sad. I do not understand what more i can possibly do to not feel alone and depressed especially when i have put in efforts to be occupied with work or college stuff. Maybe this feeling will persist and i would not really know how to deal with it or how to cope with it. I feel as if everyone is against me and i just can not seem to win this uphill battle where no one is with me. Even my friends have gone distant and would do everything to ignore me instead of actually reaching out and seeing how lonely, terrible and sad I feel. Maybe this is why i am asking everyone here online, to people I have never met, what to do when feeling lonely and depressed???

Depression

There are lots of phases of life and one is failing in something which you have gave 100% still you failed. Know my thoughts about one phase of life!

Suppose you are in 12th or any other class and you study alot like you would top and succeed in your exam...but eventually you fail it then you decide to study next year again with more intense and give exam but you fail again and this process goes on to 2-5 years, then one day all your mental power is over and finally you decide to change your stream or go out in the world to work and make money ..you gain positive vibes again and everything goes good.

Now think same situation as in relationship journey

You are in love and you care, you do all sort of things as to success in your love life but eventually you fail in relationship then you decide to give more love with more intensely but you fail agaiIn and this process goes on and on for I don't know till when. You need to understand that one day you have to move on in life. You have to see different peoples and be positive. You have to set a different path away from that person. You need to go out in world. Everything will be good at the end I promise.

3am Thoughts

Cheers to those who love us , losers who lost us and lucky bastards who will meet us 🤘🏻

Celebration

When you get through tough times on your own, you don't really care who stays in your life.

Life

Idk I'm not exactly sure of how I feel, I do feel great but also hate ugh idk


Conflict

I can't imagine my life without him - the him that I always thought I knew and loved.

I can't imagine my life with him - the him that I have learnt is part of him; that I can't stand for.

I know that neither cancels the other out. Both things are true.



Confusion

I get angry very easily with the people that I love the most like my parents, my brother, my boyfriend. I scream at them and I say things that hurt them a lot and then I instantly regret it. I try to write it down. I try counting. I meditate. But nothing helps. I am miserable. I always hurt the people I love.

Thought

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