I am in a relationship and everything was going good…but because of her past relationship with someone earlier for last 6 years …since then she remain very disturbed and have very bad mood swings.
now one day I said something which was completely untrue just to show myself superior which I should not say…now she gets more disturbed because of that and she thinks it was true.
Now one day she said “you were something for me earlier but now i swear you are nothing for me now”
Now she don’t want to get attached to me nor want to share the things which she used to do nor want to talk on call…we only chat on whatsapp only and we talk normally and sometimes she still shares things but then sometimes nothing more than a word reply.
Please advise where I am heading and where this relationship will take me ?
U should be truthful to the person u love not superior just apologize her n be a trusted person
Yes I did this many times, but at that moment she says ok but after few days again same things starts…now she said “I am nothing for her” as per the phrase I have mentioned in the paragraph above.
I have nor contacted her since yesterday…so shall I wait for her first reply ?
Apologize once more then we will see
If you can see face to face… talk to her and explain things to her and apologize for what you said to her and tell her you didnt mean it but did it out of impulse and you also, dont do that again knowing what scar she has from her previous relationships… just be as honest as possible and apologize
she might be moving back to her home in assam with her family this weekend from delhi…I don’t know if we will ever meet again.
but I really want to meet …hug her tightly and want to be with her always.
I have not contacted her since yesterday and waiting for her first reply
So you have today and tomorrow, ask her to meet with you or for an hangout and explain all to her if she means alot to you… reach out to her also cos she might be having a hard time reaching out to you… just be honest with her
He honest with her and try to get her trust back, she will feel attached and here boom the relationship again starts
now I am completely honest only but she stills feel like I will also leave her and don’t want to get attached as she said she can handles any more heartbreaks and then recently she said “i am nothing for her”
dont know what to do…i am just waiting she will reply me first as i have not contacted her back
She needs time to get recovered from her past and your lie
She will come back to you