I am in a long dstnce relationship .but we dont talk much daily..he lives with family ..he says has lot of college stuff to finish..even i also have ..i am confused...is giving space and taking too much space fair ..i am not worried..but i have this doubt sometimes in my mind..he only comes to talk when he wants to

I am only talking when he texts me frst..i asked him why no call ...then he said he have urgnt things ..is it his personality or is doesnt care 

I have thoughts like...if i ask him same question again ..i will be losing my selfrespect...i am confused...the thing is .he is a person who dont like drama or such things

I am not thinking much...just letting it flow...being with my frnds ..but sometimes i miss us

Find balance, not just desire. Things won't hurt you much as it does. Best wishes mate :) 

You could add friends to your life. Get out of this if you have to, if there's something you need to do, do it. If there's nothing, you don't have to do a thing. Worrying would only make things worse. Add new faces, for instance, me of course :P

3am Thoughts

I don't really socialize but I got this online friend who keeps talking to me no matter  how bad our conversations end and I am already dealing with my mental health issues so I thought to not talk to anyone but this guy keeps saying tell me your problems, let's solve our problems, your presence is enough for me, don't leave me alone n all. It just surprises me why he talks like that to me when we just talk on texts only. Idk what to do.. kya yr Why my life is like this.. kuch sort rehta hi nhi hai

Friends

recently i got a match ...the boy who came to see me texted me in social account few days later... i replied to him and gave him space to keep his point of view and opinion... i given some basic information about me.... i felt that from this we can take some time to think about it carefully and take rightful decision .... becuase its aa huge decision in which our future depends .... i didn't informed my parents about this but when i discussed with my frnds .... they all are saying that its not correct to talk like that u should avoid his msg at the first stage.... when parents finalizes  that match ..than only u can talk to boy ... before that talking to him is not a good idea... by donig like that it represents ur character be like bad...and boys feel like u r character less....  because u rply and spoken to that person who will be or will not be ur partner .... before any final decision.... did i really do something wrong ...to talking to that person 

Confusion

Hey guys, I wanted to say that I'm unhappy in my relationship. There was been trouble since over two weeks, my boyfriend is being very different. He feels he doesn't want to be consumed by this relationship and be bound to it and earlier used to feel that he doesn't have the freedom of disagreeing with me. But of course he can disagree and say things but now things aren't working out. He texts me less very less, he calls me less. He doesn't say love you often. I don't feel cared for or loved. I want him back. He doesn't call me by the nickname he kept and I feel very distant with him. I have been crying a lot and very upset about this. He told me that he doesn't want to talk that often but I want to. I told him that it's no rule but we can talk a lil bit throughout the day. I don't know when will things be alright. I love him and I'm very hurt. I just wish for us to feel togetherness and loved. I don't want to leave him but it's so upsetting. I don't know what to do.

Relationships

Okayyyyyy......
So I caught feelings for someone random stranger on an app called chatous, And I feel stupid. I feel so because of the following reasons :
1) I met him online, I have never met this person in real life 
2) he is in different country, hell different continent 
3) sometimes I doubt whether he is a real person or not because he is 20 and does not have any social media account.  Suspicious? 
4) he has this annoying habit of just vanishing for days and replying to my 4 day old text as if he wasn't Mia.  Like dude if you busy say so,  if you are about to sleep say so,  but don't keep me hanging,  because I have feelings for you so I'll wait for your text even thought I'll have to wait for hours and I hate myself for thatttt... Ughhh 
5)  sometimes he's all sweet and all and is like move here, as if it's so simple and I just don't know. 
Like do I trust him or is it just some another 50 year old. We have been taking since July 2020 and it's April 2021 now . Help me out here guys I'm so confused. 
He also says that when this Covid situation is all better he will visit me, and I'm scared that he turns up to be some scamster, but I kinda like him. 
I'm soooooooooo stupidddddd

Crush

I’m going through a rough break up. He cheated. It was my first relationship after a very nasty divorce from an abusive marriage. I’m really struggling with feeling not worthy of love and having no one that I can count on, despite being the one that always takes care of everyone else.  Even though I have proof in black and white of his infidelity, I still feel like I should give him another chance and an almost desperation to work it out.  

Breakup

#28..........Days passed by and I kinda moved on from Mr. A and mean while Mr. B contacted me few times but I blocked him because I understood he was just trying to use me. He called and texted me few time just to ask if I wanna meet him again and stay the night over at his place. I directly said NO! And said I'm not the kind of girl he thinks I am. I thought of him as a gentleman but he turned out to be disgusting. Funny how men can fake things so effortlessly.  
And throughout this time be it my personal life problems or academic Mr. P always supported me and we kinda became like best friends. I didn't knew about him but I once stated feeling like I was attracted to him but then I brushed off those feelings thinking about my past experiences with men, I didn't have the courage to be hurt again by another guy. So I never told anything about those feelings and kept out friendship going. Moreover he has this situation with another girl going on where is was treated like ab option by the other girl. So it was better if I didn't stir up the mess more..........(to be continued) 

I recently broke up, and it was kind of mutually. We were in a live-in relationship. After breaking up, i just don't know how to keep myself up without him. Coz, more than romance I miss his company. There is a constant devoid that cannot be filled. It feels like i dont know how to sustain by myself and enjoy my life. Simple things like eating alone or smoking a cigarette just draws me back to the memories. I know that we were not compatible in a relationship but I miss him as a person, i just miss being around him. And it's suffocating me. 

I got to know this guy from a dating app. I wanted to take things slow but he was very sure about dating me he assured me he will handle everything and insisted me to give it a try. So We started to date and dated for 9 days and all of a sudden he ghosted. He said his result for some exam he had given is out and he hasn't made it. Since then he stopped calling or messaging and started ignoring me. I tried to meet him to understand his situation but he isn't even meeting. He is talking to me all rude. And he is blaming me for his behavior. He replies to my text after 2-3 days never return/picks my calls and give any excuse like he isn't well or had slept. Does these signs means he is no more interested in me? I feel like I don't hold any value in his life and he is treating me as an option. Also I feel I dnt deserve this kind of ignorance and behavior. I get invested into relationships which eventually hurts me. Sometimes I feel I should become cold about loving people in my life. Or I should give up on dating as people nowadays opt to leave rather than solving issues. 

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