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Anonymous

I am in a dilemma… I got cheated on earlier in my relationships, got left or rejected even after he proposed the marriage.
Then similarly every other Indian, I said yes to the arranged marriage even after i didn’t like the guy. My parents were happy and initially I was happy to see them happy.
And then one guy came into the picture, I never told him that I am almost engaged and kept him near. We got so close that I thought I should break the almost engagement but my parents did what every parent has been doing.

Now after one year of marriage, I am still not happy. My husband is caring but we are not compatible. I am still talking to that other guy… I am doing this emotional cheating and don’t even have the guts to break this marriage.

The other guy should move on, but I am not letting him. I am afraid I will be left alone.

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Anonymous

You are going to loose both sooner or later

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Anonymous

I think i need to prepare myself in losing one of them.
This time I will save my marriage

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Anonymous

Mohtarma save your marriage control your emotions stop lurking for better now you made your decision and got married.

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Anonymous

Understood!
Sometimes I just want to leave both and go away… somewhere far and not to think about all this… all this guilt in my head is killing me

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Anonymous

Do you need help? How to get out from this situation?

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Anonymous

Yes, i desperately need help… All the guilt has taken the form of self harming thoughts.
I want peace

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Anonymous

Connect?

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Anonymous

How?

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Anonymous

Work on your marriage. Leave the other gentleman to themselves.

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Anonymous

I am trying to do that… I am trying to not to talk to other guy but whenever I do that I get this heart wrenching pain and got depressed 😔

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Anonymous

That’s just a phase. Do good.

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Anonymous

I hope so… You think I need a therapist?

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Anonymous

You can…else sort this within yourself first. It will be good. Leave the guy… Infidelity doesn’t help much. Rest ur choice

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Karthikey @stupid_nerd

Feeling so sad for your husband🥹🥹
He is not at fault but still not getting what he deserves
Try to invest in this relationship please

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Anonymous

Don’t keep your foot on two boat

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