I am having issues with my in-laws. It’s like walking around eggshells with them. There is a lack of boundaries and respect. I hate to visit them. It’s so stressful for me every time I visit them. I’m scared of them too especially my mil and sil. They can be rude as well. I just don’t want to meet them or visit them most of the time. How do I overcome this. I just wish my husband goes alone to visit them.
You can discuss your discomfort with your husband regarding this. I.am assuming that u don’t stay with ur inlaws. So you can set boundaries accordingly. Speak less and be loving with them . It works . Over time things gernally gets better
It’s been 4 years…have always been loving and never disrespected them… hopefully in the long-run things will get better.
Yes I am sure. Take care
Nance A. @nance_agrwll
I understand how stressful it is for you.Apart from talking to your husband about your discomfort, I suggest you to write your feelings and thoughts in journal.This practice will help you understand your emotions and respond mindfully
Yes…I need to try that .thank you
If visiting them is important then go and meet them but don’t tolerate disrespect… tell them clearly that they need to respect you then only you ll be able to go there and meet them and they don’t respect you that means they are toxic or may be they don’t want to see you
Yeah…I also feel they are toxic…No matter what I do there is always something wrong and this is stressing me out tbh…I genuinely liked them and is still willing to forgive and work things out if they are also nice to me…but I don’t see that happening at all.
When you tolerate disrespect… they think they are entitled to do so… because you are tolerating it that’s why they are doing it… tell them that you are okay with it and may be then they will reconsider their behaviour towards you
Not okay*
Thank you 😊
