I am having feelings for one my colleague and we are good friends to but I am too afraid to ask her out or even confess my feelings to her thinking that it might spoil our friendship.
And unable to express my feelings I am feeling terrible bottling things up.
going with the saying - kuch paane ke liye kuch khona padta he, ask her out. What would be the worst-case scenario and how would you deal with it?
And what would be the best-case scenario? You have your answer right there.
And considering the fear of confessing, then ask yourself why that fear? Is there a way you can tell her about your feelings in the way she takes other information and not look like a despo or creep (if that is one of the things you are worried about)
I fear because I don’t wanna lose the friendship which I have and things will get awkward between us if she doesn’t have mutual feelings