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I am having a sinking feeling. My boyfriend and I are planning to get married and we both stay in the US. We had decided we would just go for marriage and not for engagement. But after he spoke to his parents, he is completely onboard with doing engagement which means we have to take a financial hit to go to India twice. I feel betrayed that my opinion was not valued. And am scared this influence is going to continue for all important decisions of my life. I am feeling my life is going to be dictated by others after marriage. Please help. I am angry anf have been crying for days about this

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Hey

@sympathetic_hug
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first of all, congrats yr! & have you met your bf parents? how are they in general

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Anonymous
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You should be discussing with ur fiance and let him know ur views on this. Let’s see if his response might work as a medicine

Sneha Naik @blissful_flag

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Accha suno… First of all Congratulations. Right now, you should focus on the fact that, this is a one time thing. Engagement baar baar thodi hoti hai. Second, theek hai na… Next time usey bolna… Ki shaadi tumhare hisaab se hui thi… Ab ghar mere hisaab se chalega πŸ˜‚ chill yaar… Itna mat socho control ke baare mei. Jiss tarah se tum soch rhi ho na … Looks like u r more interested in the control.

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