I am going the very very bad phase of my life right now, im in a relationship of 2 years now, i want to right in hindi so please dont mind🥺
Mujhe bht hi genuine advice ki zaroorat hai, iss time mein i have almost lost the romantic feelings in my relationship mtlb i am so insecure of losing him, i can not lose him in any conditions aur ham long distance relationship mein h, we haven’t met since 4-5 months, mujhe choti choti cheezo se insecurities hoti h mtlb vo kisi bhi ldki se baate kre ya even vo kisi celeb ko hot bol deta h toh mujhe lgta h ki uska interest kam ho gya h mujhe mein, mujhe lgta h ki cheeze pehle se badal gyi h maine usko confront kiya ki pehle jaisa nhi h kuch aur kuch feel nhi aa rhi h mujhe toh he made me understand ki tum bht zada overthink kr rhi ho aur mujhe pe bharosa kro kuch nhi hua h sab thik hai, par mujhe lgta h ki uska behaviour thoda sa change hua h, mein poore din usko stalk krti hu kbhi Whatsapp mein dekhti hu ki online h, mujhe lgta h ki ham bas cheezo ko chla rhe hai par i want him, i cant lose him usne bhi yeh hi bola h ki kbhi kbhi hota h aisaa par mein kuch smjh nhi paa rhi hu
I may sound harsh but this is coming from a personal experience…
I think you need to focus more on building urself up and trying different things… Right now i feel ur just idle whole day and therefore overthinking and stalking his activities when u got nothing else to do.
You need to realise that he’ll be there for u but you can’t just make him the sole purpose of ur life… Get urself busy and you’ll automatically stop thinking so much about him…
Yes, you are right
I m idle whole dayy
Thank you so much for the advice
I really needed it🥺
I know it bcoz at one point of time i was going through something like that and i learned this the hard way.
Does this helped you?
Yes… it did but it takes time…
You’ll have to build ur habits and finding out things that you like doing so that ur not thinking about other stuff when ur indulged in that.
I’ll try to get into stuffs i like
Ty💖
