I am getting married in a few months and in our culture, the groom has to buy the wedding clothes of the married so when I was in our engagement period I have told my husband to get the wedding clothes but he always ignored me now when it’s the time everybody he says that “ I don’t have the money, I am not going to buy no matter what, no no no no so expensive” even though he has the money but he doesn’t want to spend his money on his wife he got all of his family and relatives new clothes but he does want to buy me the dress he’s giving me a-lot of stress my hairs are turning gray and I am so exhausted he always argue because of money he has money for everyone but not for me. Marriages happen only once in a lifetime but he do this to me I am afraid that if I can get a small portion of food at his house or no I am so confused he is so miser and greedy when I ask him why he says I am doing this for our future and our kids the kids that we don’t have and the future that we are not aware of. Besides he says after marriage you have to work and pay for your own things as well as your salary will go to my account and such this.
Reconsider dear.
Break up with him or else you will make your life hell
Just do a job… If he is really thinking about his family future… Then go to a fine mall and buy him a fantastic suit cost nearly 40-45K. If he deny this gift thn he is your man.
Otherwise… Return that suit and man too.
Honesty, Please just reconsider on everything that has happened and just reflect it on what is going to happen! Pretty sure it will be the same because a person who is petty on the money they spend, will always be the same way and no doubt about it because all they want is to save money that don’t even know the purpose for!
A marriage where you can’t have an agreement on without stress is something that you will have to think over twice before making a step forward! Marriage is not just a commitment it also comes with great understanding of one another!
Trust me, when you think you can adjust to all that and still get married…even your kids will have to have the same situation to the extent to think that their parent can’t afford anything for them because they are just too selfish when it comes to money! At some point you will come to convince your kids to adjust and they will be exhausted to have such a parents!
Novith @novith
I think you already know this marriage is a wrong decision. Now you have two options .
1. Prepare yourself to endure life long humiliation and only be the 2nd important thing in his life, after money.
2. Call off the wedding and turn over a new page in your life.
Abhijeet A.K @akabhi
Don’t get me wrong if that’s his thinking then I would suggest you to rethink about him as ur future or else future will be very difficult
Alien @yolo10
Wtf is this are you really gonna marry him?
When you have to work for your things why should you get Marry… Be alone enjoy your life with family don’t think about society
