I am getting interested in this new guy…and one of my friend said you are downgrading from your previous boyfriend…I mean what is downgrading? I like thus guy he is sweet nice caring…and why did he say like that?
Ask him what does he mean?! Only he can tell u what he means
That my previous boyfriend didn’t drink alcohol, this guy does and he parties and my previous boyfriend was very much stressed about career but this guy is like yes he is doing well and carefree.
The. You need to decide what is upgrading or downgrading for you or if it even matters to you.
Because he might prefer people like that you don’t, so that’s your end call. He can think what’s good for you, but you know what’s good for you. Just don’t let people you date change u, into a person u don’t like. That’s all i think it matters. If that person makes u feel loved, cared for and respected then i don’t think their lifestyle has anything to be bothered about. Unless it’s absolutely a alcoholic or a partyohlic or something like that. Then u gotta see if you’ll have to become that person to be accepted by him. It’s complicated u see, only you can tell what’s best for you
Figure out is it just liking or just attraction because u are alone?