I am felling extremely lonely, wanting to express my thought but there is no one to talk to. I donβt know how to feel or what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together almost everyday for the past 2 months. 5 days ago was the last time I saw him and it was only for a half hour. I called him 3 days later to see if he wanted to hangout. He said yes but a little while later he said he couldnβt make it due to a flat tire. He said if he got it fixed that day he would come see me the next day. On my way to the store, I rode past his house (he live on the same street as me) and he was out fixing his tire. The next day I texted him to see if he was still coming over. I got the notification that he read my message but he never responded. I rode by his house and he was not homeβ¦ Later that night he posted on his snap chat story and he was at his friends house. I am just confused and hurt. When he is with me he is very loving and affectionate with me, always telling me he loves me. He seems like he is very into me. He liked me before I had feelings for him. But when he is with his friends I donβt hear from him for a few days. I really donβt think there is another girl, itβs just that I feel like his friends are more important to him than me. I want to call him but at the same time I feel like if he really wants me let him come to me. I really like him and I want to work things out. I donβt give up easily. I donβt have any other problems with him besides communication. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Vikalp Mishra @vklpm
Hi! How do you cope when you feel lonely? What is it that you usually do?
Caleigh Allen @cmb3577
Some times i watch a show or a movie that I enjoy but most of the time I just have to wait until the feeling passes
Vikalp Mishra @vklpm
Does spening time with co-workers or friends help?
Caleigh Allen @cmb3577
It would help but I recently move about two hours away from my old home. The friends I have there are very far and I donβt get to see them. I havenβt made any friends here yet
Ruda @ruda_taetae
Hi, I think the only way you can feel better about this is to tell him exactly all this. But speak to him when both of you are calm and composed, in a position to listen to each other. Iβm sure he will understand your issue and will help you feel better. Take care.