I am feeling very lonely. I am 33 and I fear I will end up alone. I have been on dating apps, I go out on dates but still the process feels futile.

Why you need to on dates? There are better alternatives in arranged marriage, if you are unmarried. The time might have changed but the old ways are still good. Look up to your parents/grand parents and check did they go on date

It gets better. You are complete as you come. Don’t need anybody else! 

Lonely

Why are some people so unlucky in relationship with friends, partners, cousins, and with parents too 🥺

Affirmations

I'm 20 yrs old, I've never dated anyone, haven't even had any "almost". I feel lonely.

I am very angry at the dating scene these days. Nowadays, all people want is casual relationship or hookups and i feel like i am stuck in wrong generation. All there is left is lust.. nobody wants to plan things. Sabko instant noodles chahiye. Sometimes I feel i will die single.

3am Thoughts

i’m 25. recently, many of my single friends are getting into relationships. i’m kinda sad that i’m still alone but no matter how hard i try to socialize and make friends, it still won’t work out. is the problem with me or i just have no luck with love💔

Relationships

Looking for stories from people who have found the one. 
I have been single for the last 2 years. Yes the past relationships have been toxic. I have kind of shut myself off from relationships. I don't feel attracted to people romantically. (I'm a woman and I low-key even questioned my sexuality and it turns out I'm into men.) I look at other couples and think I'd like to be in a relationship someday. Last few years COVID has killed every opportunity to meet with someone and fall in love organically. In my desparation, I tried to talk to people on dating apps. They are good and I still don't feel attracted to them. It seems like I have to put a lot of effort to talk and keep the conversation going. I have to fake and it's exhausting. It shouldn't be like that if it's meant to be right? I didn't find anyone I could see myself with. I'm starting to think it will probably never happen to me. All my friends are married and settled. I'm nowhere close. 
Like Chandler said, I'm going to die alone. 
Tell me about your stories. I'd like to get some hope that yes it's still possible to be in a fulfilling relationship. Man I do not want to settle for an average relationship where we are just room mates. I look upto Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively.

I have never been in a relationship before. My co workers are curious about me but I just tell them I’m single and focused on myself. They will make fun of me if they find out. They will lose all respect for me. 

**Lonely yet Happy**
So I see couples around and I feel *I wish I had someone* but is this what happiness feels like?
Ofcourse after a bad breakup you tend to lose faith on relationship especially if your trust was broken but then again you have your hopes high to find that perfect one

But at the age of 23+ when maturity hits hard, you realise being single brings focus to yourself. You start focusing on your health, things you like to do or prefer. Responsibility lows down and somehow there's peace. It's just the loneliness that at times hits you hard and you tend to look out for one. Online dating is overrated and way to temporary especially when you are old school you don't fit in. So even if it's lonely out here but I'm still happy

Mental Health

I'm a guy who don't want to go in a relationship till i became totally independent and my university takes all my time and i am afraid to get in to a relationship and get drained and it will leave me heart broken.
I think the best choise is to wait till I finish my uni and be financially stable so i can provide cuz i want a real relationship not to enjoy myself or something.
The problem is that I'm a medical student and i will finish my uni and be come independent by 30 and that's too much tbh😂.
And getting a gf is super easy for me I'm handsome and my female best friend always tell me about girls that have crush on me and i rejected many girls not because I'm cool ar something just because i know we might broke each other.
It's a long story 😂
What do y'all think i should do ?
Or give ma an advice.


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