I am.feeling very heartbroken this time . My boyfriend under the influence of his friends made me worthless like I am nobody . At present I donβt know what to do because our relationship was very beautiful itβs hard to digest for me the way he is behaving with me . I am very shattered this time want to escape but I am not seeing any other way. My tears , loneliess and sleepless nights are accompanying me .
Joker πππ @joker279
Donβt get too much stressed β¦ btw how he is behaving as in what are changes he is having that you feel that way
I got to know he was talking to random girl from 5- 6 days then I had an argument with him why he is hiding from me I am your friend than he accepted his mistake and said sorry to me but when he talk about to his friends he suddenly flipped and said you are not my wife or mother you aee just a girlfriend so behave like that . I donβt know what to do
Joker πππ @joker279
Well then I think you should think about your relationship more preciselyβ¦ as I can see that your bf is not loving you just keeping you as a safe side β¦ btw he is not a kid that he just follows his friends advice , his thinking is same thatβs why he said that β¦ itβs better to discuss now face to face otherwise it would be worse if it grows(feelings) more from your side
Yeah thatβs what I am doing regularly I am communication my emotions and feelings but he is like my bp goes up with your problems . I want this relationship to b simple
Joker πππ @joker279
Tell him that Relationships are simple when it goes in a flow and the talks or things lays between you and him β¦ third person donβt have any right to say in it β¦
Thatβs what i said nobody has right to talk about our relationship . No one can feel our love what we have then why are you getting influenced. He was like no I am not influenced but this is true you are just my girlfriend you donβt have any right to ask with whom I am talking
Joker πππ @joker279
Okay then I suggest you should think about your relationship now seriously. I mean ask him are you trying to end the relationship?
I asked him he said no I donβt want to but the reaction you are giving me then I donβt have any other option . But I am not getting where I was wrong why he is gaslighting Me . If he wants to breakup then tell me directly why such kiddish games ?
Joker πππ @joker279
Yeah exactly⦠. Did you notice any other things in this meantime?
Yeah he is not meeting me . He is always angry on me . Always demoralizing me sometimes talk about me on my looks and also comparing me with my friends about looks and personality and today he talks about financial status as well
Joker πππ @joker279
Okay then he is just not telling you bluntly but he wants breakup. Itβs just that he doesnβt want to look like evil. So innocently he is behaving like that so that u can leave him automatically. Afterwards you canβt blame him . If you say it then he will say you left I didnβt left you
I also said this to him then he was like the day I want to breakup I will block you straightforward and will not entertain you . Thatβs why I am in confusing what kind a toxic behavior is this
Joker πππ @joker279
Well then I should suggest you that you should move away from such toxic person as soon as possible⦠it will hurt more if your feelings for him grows time to time more and he leave you after that ⦠so better to get apart soon .
Btw itβs my point of view and suggestion , the decision should be yours obviouslyβ¦
Yeah I know this decision is very tough but in the end I have to think about myself
Joker πππ @joker279
Exactlyβ¦
See in relationships small things happens we can forget or forgive it but when it comes to self-esteem we should always stay tough
Mitr kisi ke behkawe mai aakar agar wo aisa behave kr raha hai tab usse pehle hi apse pyar nahi hai aur kaisa behave kr raha hai wo
Jab Maine usse kaha tum mujhe chorh b sakte ho kisi ki baaton mein aake toh usne kaha haaan may b
Mitr tab apka boyfriend aap sai jyada doosro pr believe krta hai aur wo apse real pyar nhi krta
He isnβt a kid he knows what he is doing and the damage it is causing but you still need to have a good talk with him about it and what happens to your relationship next. Iβm pretty sure he knows no matter what youβre going to stay and tolerate it all so i think itβs time to show that you can stand up for yourself and wonβt let him play around.
So what to you suggest should I step back ?
I canβt say anything itβs your call ik itβs a tough decision but you have to do something about it. Seeing that he demoralized you, comparing you with your friends and basically doing all the stuff he shouldnβt be doing if I were in your shoes I would step back no matter how much it hurts. Because shouldnβt he be hyping you up and sticking by your side no matter what? Keep your head & standards high yaar. You deserve better than this
Thatβs what I am telling myself but I donβt have the courage to take step back everytime I cries whenever I get a thought of leaving
You know youβre a really strong girl itβs hard itβs really tough to do it but something has to be done or this pain is gonna be forever. Sooner or later youβre gonna gain clarity on this and youβll realize itβs all so wrong
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