I am.feeling very heartbroken this time . My boyfriend under the influence of his friends made me worthless like I am nobody . At present I don’t know what to do because our relationship was very beautiful it’s hard to digest for me the way he is behaving with me . I am very shattered this time want to escape but I am not seeing any other way. My tears , loneliess and sleepless nights are accompanying me .
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Don’t get too much stressed … btw how he is behaving as in what are changes he is having that you feel that way
I got to know he was talking to random girl from 5- 6 days then I had an argument with him why he is hiding from me I am your friend than he accepted his mistake and said sorry to me but when he talk about to his friends he suddenly flipped and said you are not my wife or mother you aee just a girlfriend so behave like that . I don’t know what to do
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Well then I think you should think about your relationship more precisely… as I can see that your bf is not loving you just keeping you as a safe side … btw he is not a kid that he just follows his friends advice , his thinking is same that’s why he said that … it’s better to discuss now face to face otherwise it would be worse if it grows(feelings) more from your side
Yeah that’s what I am doing regularly I am communication my emotions and feelings but he is like my bp goes up with your problems . I want this relationship to b simple
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Tell him that Relationships are simple when it goes in a flow and the talks or things lays between you and him … third person don’t have any right to say in it …
That’s what i said nobody has right to talk about our relationship . No one can feel our love what we have then why are you getting influenced. He was like no I am not influenced but this is true you are just my girlfriend you don’t have any right to ask with whom I am talking
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Okay then I suggest you should think about your relationship now seriously. I mean ask him are you trying to end the relationship?
I asked him he said no I don’t want to but the reaction you are giving me then I don’t have any other option . But I am not getting where I was wrong why he is gaslighting Me . If he wants to breakup then tell me directly why such kiddish games ?
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Yeah exactly… . Did you notice any other things in this meantime?
Yeah he is not meeting me . He is always angry on me . Always demoralizing me sometimes talk about me on my looks and also comparing me with my friends about looks and personality and today he talks about financial status as well
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Okay then he is just not telling you bluntly but he wants breakup. It’s just that he doesn’t want to look like evil. So innocently he is behaving like that so that u can leave him automatically. Afterwards you can’t blame him . If you say it then he will say you left I didn’t left you
I also said this to him then he was like the day I want to breakup I will block you straightforward and will not entertain you . That’s why I am in confusing what kind a toxic behavior is this
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Well then I should suggest you that you should move away from such toxic person as soon as possible… it will hurt more if your feelings for him grows time to time more and he leave you after that … so better to get apart soon .
Btw it’s my point of view and suggestion , the decision should be yours obviously…
Yeah I know this decision is very tough but in the end I have to think about myself
Joker 😈😈😈 @joker279
Exactly…
See in relationships small things happens we can forget or forgive it but when it comes to self-esteem we should always stay tough
Mitr kisi ke behkawe mai aakar agar wo aisa behave kr raha hai tab usse pehle hi apse pyar nahi hai aur kaisa behave kr raha hai wo
Jab Maine usse kaha tum mujhe chorh b sakte ho kisi ki baaton mein aake toh usne kaha haaan may b
Mitr tab apka boyfriend aap sai jyada doosro pr believe krta hai aur wo apse real pyar nhi krta
He isn’t a kid he knows what he is doing and the damage it is causing but you still need to have a good talk with him about it and what happens to your relationship next. I’m pretty sure he knows no matter what you’re going to stay and tolerate it all so i think it’s time to show that you can stand up for yourself and won’t let him play around.
So what to you suggest should I step back ?
I can’t say anything it’s your call ik it’s a tough decision but you have to do something about it. Seeing that he demoralized you, comparing you with your friends and basically doing all the stuff he shouldn’t be doing if I were in your shoes I would step back no matter how much it hurts. Because shouldn’t he be hyping you up and sticking by your side no matter what? Keep your head & standards high yaar. You deserve better than this
That’s what I am telling myself but I don’t have the courage to take step back everytime I cries whenever I get a thought of leaving
You know you’re a really strong girl it’s hard it’s really tough to do it but something has to be done or this pain is gonna be forever. Sooner or later you’re gonna gain clarity on this and you’ll realize it’s all so wrong
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