I am.feeling very heartbroken this time . My boyfriend under the influence of his friends made me worthless like I am nobody . At present I donโt know what to do because our relationship was very beautiful itโs hard to digest for me the way he is behaving with me . I am very shattered this time want to escape but I am not seeing any other way. My tears , loneliess and sleepless nights are accompanying me .
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Donโt get too much stressed โฆ btw how he is behaving as in what are changes he is having that you feel that way
I got to know he was talking to random girl from 5- 6 days then I had an argument with him why he is hiding from me I am your friend than he accepted his mistake and said sorry to me but when he talk about to his friends he suddenly flipped and said you are not my wife or mother you aee just a girlfriend so behave like that . I donโt know what to do
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Well then I think you should think about your relationship more preciselyโฆ as I can see that your bf is not loving you just keeping you as a safe side โฆ btw he is not a kid that he just follows his friends advice , his thinking is same thatโs why he said that โฆ itโs better to discuss now face to face otherwise it would be worse if it grows(feelings) more from your side
Yeah thatโs what I am doing regularly I am communication my emotions and feelings but he is like my bp goes up with your problems . I want this relationship to b simple
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Tell him that Relationships are simple when it goes in a flow and the talks or things lays between you and him โฆ third person donโt have any right to say in it โฆ
Thatโs what i said nobody has right to talk about our relationship . No one can feel our love what we have then why are you getting influenced. He was like no I am not influenced but this is true you are just my girlfriend you donโt have any right to ask with whom I am talking
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Okay then I suggest you should think about your relationship now seriously. I mean ask him are you trying to end the relationship?
I asked him he said no I donโt want to but the reaction you are giving me then I donโt have any other option . But I am not getting where I was wrong why he is gaslighting Me . If he wants to breakup then tell me directly why such kiddish games ?
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Yeah exactlyโฆ . Did you notice any other things in this meantime?
Yeah he is not meeting me . He is always angry on me . Always demoralizing me sometimes talk about me on my looks and also comparing me with my friends about looks and personality and today he talks about financial status as well
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Okay then he is just not telling you bluntly but he wants breakup. Itโs just that he doesnโt want to look like evil. So innocently he is behaving like that so that u can leave him automatically. Afterwards you canโt blame him . If you say it then he will say you left I didnโt left you
I also said this to him then he was like the day I want to breakup I will block you straightforward and will not entertain you . Thatโs why I am in confusing what kind a toxic behavior is this
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Well then I should suggest you that you should move away from such toxic person as soon as possibleโฆ it will hurt more if your feelings for him grows time to time more and he leave you after that โฆ so better to get apart soon .
Btw itโs my point of view and suggestion , the decision should be yours obviouslyโฆ
Yeah I know this decision is very tough but in the end I have to think about myself
Joker ๐๐๐ @joker279
Exactlyโฆ
See in relationships small things happens we can forget or forgive it but when it comes to self-esteem we should always stay tough
Mitr kisi ke behkawe mai aakar agar wo aisa behave kr raha hai tab usse pehle hi apse pyar nahi hai aur kaisa behave kr raha hai wo
Jab Maine usse kaha tum mujhe chorh b sakte ho kisi ki baaton mein aake toh usne kaha haaan may b
Mitr tab apka boyfriend aap sai jyada doosro pr believe krta hai aur wo apse real pyar nhi krta
He isnโt a kid he knows what he is doing and the damage it is causing but you still need to have a good talk with him about it and what happens to your relationship next. Iโm pretty sure he knows no matter what youโre going to stay and tolerate it all so i think itโs time to show that you can stand up for yourself and wonโt let him play around.
So what to you suggest should I step back ?
I canโt say anything itโs your call ik itโs a tough decision but you have to do something about it. Seeing that he demoralized you, comparing you with your friends and basically doing all the stuff he shouldnโt be doing if I were in your shoes I would step back no matter how much it hurts. Because shouldnโt he be hyping you up and sticking by your side no matter what? Keep your head & standards high yaar. You deserve better than this
Thatโs what I am telling myself but I donโt have the courage to take step back everytime I cries whenever I get a thought of leaving
You know youโre a really strong girl itโs hard itโs really tough to do it but something has to be done or this pain is gonna be forever. Sooner or later youโre gonna gain clarity on this and youโll realize itโs all so wrong
Hey why you disconnected me?
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Mujhpe hi check karna tha ๐ญ๐
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