I am feeling lonely right now…. I have been with this guy for almost 2 years. I want committed relationship but he is not that kind of guy. But he do loves Ae and care for me. I am really confused.
Should I wait for him to realize to be committed or should I don’t expect anything?
Have you tried talking to him and making things clear? He may be committed to your relationship too but is not showing it.
hushanpreet @guri_123
I did but he never expressed . Every time he change the topic
Maybe you should tell him that talking your feelings out is important in a relationship and you need it in order to grow. He should face it cause running away from the topic won’t do any good and will just prolong both of your agony and anxiety.
I will tell him . He loves me I can see that in his eyes but it’s just that thing he always says that I don’t wanna plan anything for our future right now.
Maybe he is scared of something. Try talking it out. Only you guys can solve it.
Okay
suraj kumar @008sr
Give some more time to your relationship. Talk to him as much as possible. And one more advice don’t feel alone , such feelings are not healthy. You talk to your bestie and share such things also. You also need someone with whom you can share the unshared feelings… And your relationship, it seems he’s scared as i read previous comment. But that doesn’t mean he should stuck to that forever. You’ll have to pull out from that fear.
Before our relationship was not that good, but now he is healing . Now it’s very much better.
It’s just the thing that sometimes stuck in my mind
suraj kumar @008sr
That’s natural dear… its the result of overthinking… Talk to him and pull out from that fear of losing you…
suraj kumar @008sr
And one more thing… its good that you’re sharing here but you should talk to any of your friend with whom you share your feelings
I talked but they never gave me the right advice. They said if he loves you, he should be committed. Nobody understands about his past
suraj kumar @008sr
Okay no problem but don’t be anxious and stressed pls… such feelings hurt alot… Be strong and be positive!!
Thank you so much
I am feeling very much anxious now
