I am feeling extremely overwhelmed. My partner is busy with his friend, as his friends father is hospitalized due to some serious health conditions. It’s more than 3 weeks, he barely calls me, text me, whenever I call him he says I am busy I’ll call you when I’ll be free, then the call never comes from his side. When I bought up how it is affecting me, the not talking, communicating thing, he says you’re really being immature, stupid, what’s there to talk about daily? I can’t talk on phone. I am not a phone person, if you don’t understand, go find someone else and don’t you dare to cry, it’s fake, over acting, gaining sympathy. It really hurt me. Like it’s funny how he’s scrolling social media, but has no time for me. I really get it, there’s nothing wrong to be there for his best friend, but ignoring me is also not the option.
He is barely talking, always busy, I am getting hurt in the process, when I am communicating this, he says I am overreacting, he even said if you want to leave, you can go and find someone else, and don’t you dare to cry infront of me, it looks fake
More than two years
He even said if you want to die, go be dead
Ujjwal @ujjwals
It’s big red flag. Move on from him as soon as possible
To me, communication is very important, I am an anxious person, I get triggered when we don’t communicate, he knows everything but still doesn’t do any effort. I am always initiating calls messages, and he’s always busy like super busy, I get it’s good to be supportive of your best friend during this tough time but I am also getting affected. Shouldn’t he consider this too?
Ujjwal @ujjwals
No one is super busy on earth, he’s just trying to get rid of you. What if he doesn’t consider anything with time , you will get more broken. Just think of possible ways to get out of his influence in your mind
