Bhumi Patel @bhumipatel
I am engaged. Mera fionce goverment job kr raha he me clg k last yr me hu ham dono bohot dur reh rhe to ham 2 month ya 3 month k bad milte he vo bhi 1 2 din ke lie…lekin vo 1 ya 2 din bhi mere sath koi special nhi mtlb jab ham kisi apne close ko 2 3 mahine k bad milte he to ham kitne khush hote he ham unse chipk k rehte he but usko koi frk hi nhi pdta vo to normal hi behave krta he vo formality type.vo roz itni bat bhi nhi krta or krta he to koi b intrest bina me hr do tin din k bad jgda krti hu ki muje koi attention ya koi pyar se bat krna kucha bhi nahi to vo 2 din thik se bat krta he fir vahi…mene use kyi bar kha ki agar mere sath khus nhi he to bata de muje ham nhi rahenge kyuki puri life ka saval he to mana kr deta he ki tum jyada soch rhi ho esa ku6 nhi he me tumse bohot pyar krta hu lekin muje jatana nhi aata me nhi dikha pata…vo sara din busy rehta he me puchti hu to kehta he k abhi muje carrer bana na he muje business krna he fir to me tumra hi hu abhi me dhyan nhi de skta jyada muje kuch krna he life me shadi k bad ham sath hi to rahenge to fir bat nhi hoti to kya problem he …to me smjti hu ki uska dream me vo mehnt kr raha he me usko uska pura space deti hu kbhi bhi usko disturb nhi krti agr mene call bhi kiya ho to vo busy hota he to kbhi bhi zid nhi krti ki bs bat kro …lekin agr koi insan sach me apse pyar krta hi he to bhale hi uske dimag me jitni bate kitna bhi busy ya jo bhi ho vo ham ko kabhi side me nhi rkhta kam se kam vo din ne 5 min to ache se intrest se bat kre ga hi na lekin vo kuch nhi krta agr vo dikhata nhi he to vo hame treat krta he usse pata chal jata he ki vo kitna pyar krta he…lekin koi achi treat bhi ny…aur vo bohot hi insecure type mtlb uske alava or koi bhi mtlb koi bhi boy k sath bat nhi krne deta mere jitne bhi ache friend the sab se contact tudva diye vo hamesha bohot hi zyada shak krta he or ku6 pucchta he to papa ki kasam khilata he vo khavu tab hi sach manta he me bohot pareshan ho ry hu ki nhi dhang se treat krna or nhi mujse relation todna me kya kru yr me ese insan k sath puri life kese rahu jisko physical things sab pasand he pr jab emotional or love ki ati he to kehta he k muje jatana nhi aata ab me kya kru me sochti hu k meri koi value hi nhi he uski life me or vo muje 6ona bhi nhi chata ab me kya kru meri puri life ka saval he plz help me out this
Bhumi, aapne sahi kaha hai ke agar aapko koi sachme pasand karta hai ya pyaar karta hai to kisi na kisi tarah se wo agar time na nikal pae to at least jata to sakte hai kisi tarah ki wo aapko pasand karte hai. Mein ek baat kahu, agar aap sahi insaan ke sath hote ho na, to chahe wo kitna hi busy ho ya aapse door ho par fir bhi aapko aisa mehsoos nahi hoga ke pata nai ye banda mujse pyar karta bhi hai ya nahi.Meri khud ki long distance relationship hai, aur ham bhi kitne mahine nahi mil pate, magar kabhi bhi dono ke mind mein ye question nahi aata ke pata nai kya kar rahe mere peeche se, mujhe pasand bhi karte hai ya nahin. apke fiance ka aapki taraf kuch interest ya kuch to hona chahie na. Kya wo aapko call karke apke din ke baare mein poochte hain? choti choti cheezein hoti hain jisse aap soch sakte ho ke haan bhai mein iske sath apni life spend kar sakti hu. physical cheezein kab tak last karengi? emotional connect ki bina marriage ya life partnership ki baat nahi banegi. Aap unse kuch din baat mat keejie, dekhie ki kya wo aapko call karte hain? kya wo care karte hain? aur fir sunie ki kis type ke questions poochte hain, kabhi bhi kya unhone ne aapki feelings ya aapke day ke baare mein poocha hai? ye sab observe karna. Jahan tak mujhe lag raha hai, aap bohot strong aur independent woman ki tarah ho. aap bohot sure aur correct bhi ho. Aur agar aapko doubts hai iss engagement ke baare mein to better to yahi hai ke aap abhi iske baar mein kuch karo na ki baad mein. take care
Bhumi Patel @bhumipatel
Thanks a lot
Relationships and true love is a myth. Life is full of compromises. You both should give time and space to each other.
Mutual respect is very important part of relationship. In case you believe your partner does not respect you, it is worth leaving him.
You should focus on your career and future as well. Things would start falling in place if your love is true and genuine from both the sides.
