I am done with this thing. My partner always avoids me and lefts me all Alone When she is facing some Situations or Taking care of her family. Anything Happens to her familY she leaves me all Alone. And i am not against her family Simple things Happens at her home some Work or Anything She starts avoiding me and She leaves me. She is All good When nothing is wrong and then she Behaves this way everytime. 

Confusion

My bestfriends boyfriend cheated on her,i am really furious on him ,it's her 1st love. I am trying to console her and always with her .Any tips on how to make her feel better .

Breakup

I feel empty. Half of me feels gone. Because she's gone. I've loved her for years. All the tears, screams, dreams, everything, for absolutely nothing. All the time wasted. How do I move on. She's gone. And I'll never see her again.

Other

A question for girls only

I met a girl , we started talking as strangers. After some time we vibed very well. Taking our time, one day we decided to get into relationship. It was a mutual decision. Everything was going well then suddenly one day she asked me to be friends and stop talking about future things. Is it a red flag ? Now she blocked me and we ain't talking anymore.
Because I can't be friends with my lover , gf or whatever 
Was my decision bad?
Am I bad?


Loss

I fall in love with a girl who is from opposite cast means I am muslim and she is hindu but we always had clear on this, we don't have the future together and we will be just a friend. She had 9 year of relationship with a guy who left her 1 year before just because of he don't want to marry her. We had worked together 3 years back in a company so we know each other's just casually so she came to me for asking a help that what should she need to do because after a long period of time he finally denied for the marriage and she wanted to come out from that phase and crying too. So I did helped her as a friend, and given a realization that your life is beautiful, don't cry for someone who don't understand you in 9 years, and abusing her and I support her in career,  financially and mentally. 
We always meet and enjoy the food and do masti, majak but after 8 months our friendship she start ignoring me and when I asked her, she denied with this but I found that she start talking to her ex again and I got hurt just because of a person who left her, didn't understand her feelings, who already denied for the marriage and most importantly he is abusing now but she left me just because of that person. I tried many time to talk to her just as it but she denied to talking to me and meeting me.

Finally, I decided I have to move on but I don't understand, is am I doing right? Because once upon a time she said to me, Please don't leave me but I tried at the end of my self respect even I get lost my seft respect by calling and requesting her just for talking as a normal friend but she didn't agree.


What should I do?



I need help guys.. So i am 28 (gay) I am dating this girl since last 6 months we have a long distance relatioship. Since last 1month we had many urguements and she broked up with me thrice and came back always. 2 days back we had an urguement and she stopped talking to me and she is like i am getting mentally distrubed coz of u. She has blamed me for everything. It was my fault too i am short tempered and when she doesnt give me time and some imp i get angry. She told me i am obessed. She is like dnt say a word abt my fam and frnds. I have never got that importance ever. I asked for her attention and time always. she thinks i am immatured. I want to end this too but i am attached and not able to move on. She doesnt care and have left me all alone.

LGBTQ

I just wanted to went out my feelings.
Okay, My partner feels I'm insensitive toward her and I felt this thing today. Her Nani was not well and I consoled her but O I don't know how suddenly I started talking about some random irrelevant stuff. And I could get it from her she felt so bad. Oo god! how can I do this to her. I am feeling so guilty. I apologized even she is not angry but that Heartbreak I can feel from her face. I want to change. Change for her, be more sensitive. But I'm breaking her heart from my stupid acts. 
I love her so much but I don't know whether I will be able to change myself or not. I don;t want to loose her anyway.

Love

I Uh, broke up with my girlfriend yesterday. She was being shitty like I loved her and I did give her things and words she loves, we always had a good time and she did those back to me. We were perfect to each other full of love and care but then she started flirting with that one friend of her, and it was inappropriate flirting that should be said to lovers you know not friends, I confronted her and she use that ''I know I acted immature'' Excuse and that she took my love for granted, I hated that so much and I still do but I miss her now..  She kept begging for me to give her a chance and said ''You promised to stay with me for the next two years'' then I said, ''How can I stay with a person who is flirting with their friend like that?!'' so we havent talked in a day after the break up, I didn't give her a chance since she needs to learn instead of thinking i'd always stay. I really wanted to let her stay but I now that I have to let it go, she should learn that her actions affects things in life you know? I love myself so much so I don't wanna make me be all sad, have breakdowns, overthinking and bad shit but this does hurt.

Drunk, sad, despair, broken.

After pissing off her after my last post, she started ignoring me. She hardly talked, I said sorry, apologized in every other way, but still she didn't make it any better. I have given her time, its been 3 weeks we hardly have talked, few days back I texted her that I'm missing her and I want to see her soon. 
Yesterday 14/04/2021 our friends celebrated birthday of two of our friends, and during that one of our mutual friend told me, about my girl that she has been sending her screenshots that I'm making her feel uncomfortable and she doesn't love me. And here I'm typing this blog when I know she doesn't love me. I don't know what to do. I have been literally, crying all night, I have exam today 16/04/2021 I don't know what to do. I cannot sleep, its hurting. I cannot even smile, after knowing about the screenshot thing, from 2 days I haven't been able to talk to anyone, even my bestfriend failed to bring a smile. My world is falling apart, I don't know what to do. Maybe I should be numb in class, and forget that I know her or any of them. Maybe I will be able to focus on what's mine, its me at end. This 2 years of my 20s have been really hurting. Temporary People. I love her dude, I love her alot, I never take her for granted, I don't even make her feel bad vibes around me, I prioritize her at first than anyone else. I don't know what to do! FCKMYLIFE

Is it so hard to find someone who will love you like you love them?

Hearts breaking, losing sense of happiness, getting ignored, constantly trying to make up to her, giving her the space, trying to be less active in groups, so that she can enjoy and not be awkward around me. Yet it's not working. I'm addict.

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