I am confused š . I am in a moving on phase and somehow i ended up messaging him like for some urgent work. I thought it would be ended there. But in the morning he started his day as usual with wishing me. And now we are little bit of talking and i am taunting him indirectly but he is not reacting. What should i do ?
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
Are you feeling that to leave this relationship in a smooth way?
Not really. It is like we will not express the true feelings but will jot resist to stop talking. If i am fighting with him he still stays there.
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
For the relationship! Being honest itās one of the major thing
Honesty means like you can tell to him honestly how you feel and what you want from him.
Without expressing to him. He will never know what you truly need !
I am just trying to understand what you are trying to say but I believe it helps!
You can tell more in this comment so that I can share what I have
Whenever i express him like what i want he says please understand the situation maturely. He is a practical person and i am the emotional one. Thts why i start arguing with him.
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
When itās come to relationship we need to listen both the sidesā¦
You are listening to him ā¦ like the same way. He also needs to listen.
From my side after reading I am thinking like you are mostly hiding your feelings and sometimes faking your thoughts and emotions too
Am I right?
Actually its vice versa, he is the one who is hiding true feelings
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
Okay! I believe you are trying your efforts to confess him about his true feelings.
You are thinking he is hiding something. Ask him face to face! May be it may start a fight. But without knowing why he hiding something and thinking about that, you can start him face to face!
Sometimes it may be a silly reason later on we regret. If that case thatās not at all a problem, atleast you know the answer.
But if something complicatedā¦ like either issue is in your side or his sideā¦ you can try to clear thatā¦ in that way your relationship will be strong.
The issue is i am thinking about future . We want the same thing that is togetherness but our fate is not allowing us . So he is trying to avoid the feelings and want me to move on . Our time frame for future planning is different and that is the main problem. He is not even leaving me or not even confessing.
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
I can surely say. You are in a deep love with him! Thatās really glad to see.
The only thing is you need to provoke his feelings (if you are really sure that he is really thinks you in the same way).
As I said earlierā¦ make him to feel comfortable. Go for outingā¦ spend some time togetherā¦ then slowly ask this.
I believe he may have some insecurities.
Make him to feel like that insecurities doesnāt matter to you
Only matters is the love
He will be with you. I am hoping that!
Zenitsuā”ļø @zen_
And moreover. Its not necessary to ask him in a angry way. Or fight. (Yes I am the one who said like even if it makes a fight) but
You can also ask him in a soft way or manner like ask him and make him feel comfortā¦ he will surely expressā¦
I believe he will
Okk then i will try to talk to him again.
it might be a good idea to take a step back from texting your ex-boyfriend. Sometimes, maintaining distance can really help both parties move on more smoothly. Exploring new friendships and activities can be a great way to shift your focus and start fresh. Remember, itās okay to take time for yourself and your own growth. If youāre feeling ready, reaching out to new people and engaging in hobbies you enjoy can bring a positive change to your life.
If you want to discuss it further you can DM me.
Okay i can consider this
Donāt be hard on yourself.
You are a working girl? Or still studying?
Working
Ignore him
Okay
hey wanna talk about it ?
Yes we can
