Yes please tell
Silent eyes @silent_guy123
Yeah
Hi what happened wanna vent it…
Bhargavi @bangaram
Yes, i want to talk with someone…
You comfortable here or we may talk in connection… I read your message below it seems that too much is going on with you
Bhargavi @bangaram
Can we talk personally
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Bhargavi @bangaram
Hi, i am confused about my life. I am not getting what to do next. After graduation i am in a relationship for 1.5year. during the relationship i went through a lot of stress and depression. Basically i am a career oriented person. I want to be independent. That’s because i want to help my parents in the future. But things have gotten worse between me and my then boyfriend like he doesn’t want me to go for a job or work which I have been dreaming of since childhood. I tried a lot to convince him and make the things sorted out.but no use. But during my relationship, i took him as my whole life and i am completely addicted to him. And finally i had given a break-up call. Because i am not able to take the pressure and stress more. Now it’s been almost 3.5 years since we separated but still he is on my mind. I don’t know where he is and how he is. But my gut feeling says he is still thinking about me.
As a girl, parents wish like me to get married. Recently one alliance came and it is almost final. Now i am getting confused like am i supposed to get married to the man who was chosen by my family or i need to wait.
Please help me…i am getting suicide thoughts also. Because i am unable to come out of my past and face reality… Now present…
Saurav Kumar @saurav04
Well here is what I understood from your situation.
First of all I really appreciate you that you choose your job and career over your the person.
The reason that you may having doubts is because, when you make someone else your entire life, you often forget that you have your identity too and start identifying yourself as along with that person, there’s certain comfort in that as it is very known to you .And that is one of the reason when it came to your marriage to a very unknown person you got terrified. And just because you think about him, you ASSUME he also may be thinking about you.
But the reality can that both of you the person you where once may have died along with that relationship.
And let’s assume for a moment that he came back and you got married to that person, and he chooses again not to support you in your career or whatever endeavour you choose to persue, will you be okay with that??
