I am confused about something plzz let me know if someone can listen to me and provide some solution…I had mentioned my problem below.
Riya Ghosh @riyaghosh
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I had mentioned my problem…plz help if you can
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I am in a relationship for 4 years… Everything was going fine between us but then… I have a cousin who was like my best friend with whom I can share everything he helped me whenever I asked but About 2years ago he tried to make a physical move and I don’t know why I let him do that after that I realized that I did wrong and confessed everything to my lover and he screamed at me he was mad at me and he even left me but after sometime we get back together and everything was almost fine between us we were happy …few days back I started talking again to my cousin as he is not doing such things Now… Today he shared a post on instagram with me and I deleted it after seeing it… But my lover had seen it and he is saying that I don’t have to hide anything from him and I can do whatever I want… I told him that there’s nothing between us now… I told him that I won’t do anything that will create any problem in our relationship but he is not responding to my calls and messages… I don’t what to do not… I don’t want to lose him…
I think you should first clear out everything with your cousin and ask your cousin to talk to your bf and clear everything maybe it helps and even if he doesn’t listen to you he’s not worth you and you have to let him go even if it’s very hard
But I’m scared… What if my cousin tell everything to my family or what if my lover will get mad and do something wrong as he really hates him
Situations are scary at times and seem difficult but ask your cousin not to tell whatever happened to your family until you are ready to talk and to be very honest I think your lover doesn’t trust you enough there can be love but no trust and if he can’t trust you I think it’s better if you try to move on and give yourself some time to process everything and maybe then everything will fall in place eventually. I hope the best for you and remember everything that happens makes you stronger and happens for something good so trust yourself and your heart♥️
That’s where I’m confused…my lover loves me more than anyone but this one thing hurts him so much that’s why he is angry… I don’t want to lose him ever and on the other hand my cousin was once very close to me and I know if I ask him now he will help me in any case and he is not repeating those things again… I don’t want to lose any of them that’s why I’m angry with myself too… Is there any way to solve this matter without losing anyone and without having any fight.?
I think then it’s best if you keep trying to talk to your lover and if like you can’t contact him then take someone else’s phone to contact him I mean he’s angry maybe you should keep trying to clear the misunderstanding and explain him the situation with patience he loves you so he will understand and don’t give up, if it’s all good try to make your cousin and liver patch up too everything will be okay very soon♥️
I am trying my best to convince my boyfriend that I’m not doing anything wrong… But he is just saying he doesn’t want to talk… Tell me how can I convince him.
Tell him that it’s his right to grt angry but it’s your right too to give a explanation of whatever has happened and clear it out and ask him to just give you 10 mins to talk and even then if he isn’t convinced then you won’t contact him.
See I know this is hard but if he isn’t ready you can’t force him nor you can just sit and try convince him forever if it is meant to be it will just take some efforts if it’s not you have to let go someday I am sorry if it hurts but the reality is very harsh sometimes it’s slaps you very hard but makes you stronger than you are.
Thank you so much…
I am trying one last time and I will wait for his reply till tonight… If he will not reply I will just explain everything in a single message and move on… I hope everything will be fine…thankyou so much
Yes that’s great! I sm glad that I could help and I will pray that he understands all the best♥️
My lover called me today… He was talking nicely but still he was in a really fucking bad mood… I tried to talk about that matter but he strictly refused to talk about it… And he is taunting me about it every now and then… He told me to not message or call him until he tell me to do so… I am trying to make him understand but he doesn’t want to talk to me anymore
I am very sorry to hear that but I think it’s best if you move on because clearly he’s not ready yet I think it’s best if you do not text or call him a few days maybe when his anger cools down he will talk if he doesn’t by the end of the week I say it’s best to try to move on I know it will be hard but that would be the best for both of you.
I can stop bothering him but I don’t know how to remove that guilt from my heart… I just can’t share it with anyone… This guilt is eating me from inside… My lover has given Me everything he can and what did I give him… A broken trust 😖😔
I know that feeling of guilt but mistakes happen and I understand you love him amd he loves you too but all I can say is try that the guilt doesn’t overpower the love inside you you have me to talk to whatever you want to share. Wait till a week if he doesn’t talk to you then message him a sorry for everything you feel and try to move on it is hard and the guilt and regret will be there but time heals everything one day till then you have to try to be strong even you feel you can’t be then don’t force yourself I am here for you always
I hope everything will be fine soon…thankyou for helping me… God bless you!
Don’t thank me for this I felt that you were in pain and I hope you get out of it as soon as possible and I am there for you just believe in yourself and your faith I hope god blesses you more than me💗
