I am always upset and after hearing that dad has lost his job yesterday I am scared how things will work. My job doesnt pay well and dad has yet to pay back all the money he had taken from different people for my college. My first job started last week. Dad is planning to sell our house but getting a buyer is difficult in our area. Another option he says is to take money from a new person and clear all other loans. This way he says we will only have to worry about paying one guy instead of multiple people. I feel angry and hate myself because I think all this could have been prevented if he never took so much of money and put me in college. I never realised the sacrifices he had made for my education. The new guy if lends us the money will give us 3 years time to pay back the entire amount along with interest. I dont think it will be enough time for us to save 27 lakhs. I hate myself. I want to kill myself but i know that wont solve the situation for my parents.
You’re right on that not solving the problem and he should not take that route for any issue, Your dad just seems like he’s trying to do the best he can so that way you to do the best you can for him.I don’t feel that you should talk to him and see if you’re able to help out in anyway and tell him how you are feeling very guilty and your inner thoughts it does seem like he kind a has an idea of what to do yes I would try to weigh out any other options and come to this as a team it does seem like it’s going to be a tough three years but I do believe with help from each other you will prevail
