I am a student who is preparing for entrance exam. I got decent marks in first attempt but failed to get college. I decided to take drop and appear again for it. But all of my friends who got college now left me. I only got my female bestie with me. With failure and everyone leaving me I am starting to self doubt myself. I am having thought that might my bestie will also leave me. I will always get replaced in everyone lives.
This is getting heavy because the people who I thought were the best people in my life left me in my difficult phase . I have my bestie but I feel like I can’t disturb her. She has got her own studies and responsibilities. I don’t know what to do.
I just want to write it down. Thanks for listening me😊.
Jazzie G @bruce_wayne_
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It happens. People leave us when we’re not in the same growing stage as them. My friends left me as they all went to big cities for college while i am going to a college in my hometown. They all have got new experiences which helped in their growth…while i am just the degraded version of the old me. One lesson i learnt, always go after growth.
Ishu Khurana @writingsoul
I guess I also have to do the same. I have to start working on myself and become the better version of myself.
Thanks buddy 😊✨
Sean_75 @raindrops_moon
I’m really sorry to hear that all of this is happening to you. Sometimes things were just hard for us to deal with and the results may not be the best. But hey, failing grades doesn’t mean you’re a failure! You can always learn from your past mistakes, motivating yourself to do better next time. And the fact about you friends, I’m sure if they’re really your bestie, they would always be there for you when needed. Don’t be afraid to tell them your problems, good friends help each other.
Yea, feel free to talk to everyone about your problems, we would really like to help you out ÓvÒ
Thanks a lot . It feels good when someone listen to you😊
I know she is my bestie she understand me and she is the only one who didn’t left me. But thing is that I feel like I am burden on her. She is very nice person, she is friendly and caring. She is true gem for me.
But sometime you feel like na that this person is doing so much for me and I am not able to do anything due to my this phase. And I just hope I never get replaced in her life. 😊
Sean_75 @raindrops_moon
No problem about that ÓvÒ
Yea, I do agree on that since I sometimes feel like a bother to others for telling them my problems, but mentioning how nice and kind she was, I’m sure she’s a person that would like to help you out when needed.
I would say that, it wouldn’t really be a burden for talking your problems to her. If she really wanted to help you but you wouldn’t express yourself, it may even make things worse. So yea, don’t be afraid to at least express yourself a bit, I’m sure that someone like her is good to be there for you :)
Yeah 😊
Thanks once again✨
